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Singles Dating Vancouver – What To Do On The First Date
Nov 24th
I want to talk about the FIRST DATE with a woman, as I see far too many “horror” stories when it comes to this from Vancouver Singles.
First things first. NEVER do the typical “dinner and a movie” date. If you do, I will kick you in the nuts!
For Vancouver Dating – before you set up the date with a woman, you need to ask yourself “What is my outcome?”
Is your outcome to have a long-term relationship or just to hook up?
Either way, you want to escalate things with women as fast as possible to avoid being stuck as “the friend” or not getting anywhere.
The longer you wait to escalate with a woman, the WEIRDER it gets.
If you’re going for a kiss with a woman by the 5th date, then the chances are you will be getting shut down and you’ve already established yourself as “the friend.”
Let’s avoid this all together with the Vancouver Dating scene.
To have a successful date, you must have a GAME PLAN.
You need to be the leader. The one in charge.
You need to know where you are going and how things are going to play out.
I will share with you my typical Vancouver date.
First, I always have them to meet up in the evening (anytime between 6-9PM).
I never set up dates if there is going to be a “time constraint” and we can only hang out for an hour. I want the date to go as long as possible without hearing “I have to go now…” just as things are getting good.
So that’s why I plan for the evening, so there is the potential to hang out for several hours if necessary.
You also don’t want to do too late, as then you might hear the “I have to wake up early for work.”
But, depending if you want to hook up THAT NIGHT or in the next few dates, that is generally up to you.
I usually end up “taking things to the bedroom” on the first date and sometimes the second or third. It’s rare for me to ever “wait” before sex. I know some guys who end up waiting MONTHS…
I’m not sure if I could do that.
Anyway, when I set up the date I always give them a location.
You want the date to be on YOUR TERRITORY. In an area that you know.
It’s rare that I go out to her territory, but sometimes I do. It’s easy for me because I live downtown here in Vancouver, which gives me lots of options for Vancouver Dating.
I also rarely tell them what we’re going to do. I don’t tell them “we’re going to do XYZ and then XYZ and then XYZ…”
I like to surprise them and have them guessing. I like to “live in the moment” and just enjoy things. Plus I don’t want to make the date out to be this BIG THING… instead, I make it really low-key. This makes her feel comfortable.
Nobody wants to commit to doing all these things with someone they don’t even know.
That’s why it’s important to present it as, “Let’s just hang out for a bit…”
Okay, back to it.
I usually end up giving them a neutral location. Like a coffee shop or somewhere that is public. This will also make her feel safe and comfortable.
Once I meet her at the coffee shop, I ALWAYS give her a hug and begin the date in a fun, positive emotional state. I’m feeling confident and really good.
It’s important to make sure you’re ON. This will set up the date the way that you want it to.
If necessary, get yourself in the right state before the date. Jump up and down at your house before get there or get pumped up in your car on the way.
Once at the coffee shop, we usually end up going for a walk. I rarely sit down and have a coffee with them. Sitting across from someone can be awkward and uncomfortable. I prefer to keep moving.
So, go for a nice walk. Talk and get to know each other. Joke around and have fun.
I usually go for a walk near the beach, the water, or during the busy part of the city here in Vancouver.
At a certain point, we both get hungry. So I say, “I know this amazing place, let’s go here.”
I then take her to a restaurant that I like.
Since I’m vegetarian, it’s usually a really healthy place.
Sometimes we walk there or drive.
When we get there, it’s now EASY to sit down and talk to her.
I always make sure that I can sit NEXT to her if possible. I avoid sitting across from each other.
When a woman is across from you, it makes things harder to escalate or to touch her. I want her as close as possible to me.
But, if I can’t make that happen, it’s okay.
During dinner, the energy changes and this is my opportunity to connect with her more and get to know her. The conversation turns more “serious” and connection-building.
When it comes to the bill, sometimes I end up paying.
Any time that I do pay for dinner, I will always say “You get the next one…” assuming that we are going to be going out again.
Sometimes she will offer to pay half, which is no problem.
And in many cases, I’ve had women buy me dinner.
I never end up going to really expenses restaraunt with them that this is a big deal for me.
I’ve had times when I’ve ONLY split the bill and told them that, which is okay too. Whatever your preference is, it’s up to you.
Next, we usually go somewhere for drinks or some place to chill.
Sometimes I will take them to the beach where we can walk and sit down somewhere. Other times we will go to a bar or a lounge where we can further talk or have some drinks. Other times we will go back to my place and watch a movie or have drinks there.
Whatever it is for you, KNOW what you’re going to do.
Have this game plan and these options in advance.
It’s at this time of the night that I take things to the kiss and escalate things a lot more.
There will usually be hand holding at this point and we’ll be a lot closer together.
For the kiss, I will explain more of that in a future e-mail.
After that, it’s always leading them back to my apartment.
When I’m back there, things have now escalated beyond the kiss and now I have the choice if I want to take things into the bedroom.
I’m not here to tell you what is morally right or wrong… it is really YOUR choice.
If you don’t want to move things that fast, that’s fine. I’m not saying that you do. But this e-mail is illustrating my typical “date” with a woman.
This is a date that I’ve done many times. It’s up to you to create your own and to get experience doing it over and over again so that you feel confident with it.
The more dates that you go on, the better you will get.
You won’t feel as nervous or worried about what to do next. You will have EXPERIENCE!
I encourage you to go out and get AS MANY DATES AS POSSIBLE. Get the experience, because it will help you find that IDEAL WOMAN and to be able to have the success that you want more consistently.
EXPERIENCE is key.
Keep learning, growing, and taking action on this stuff.
If you want to fast-track your results, then be sure to check out the Vancouver Dating – Dating Mastery Seminars every Thursday.
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Hope this helped! Until next time…
Stefan
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Vancouver Dating – How to Meet a Woman at Starbucks
Nov 10th
So I am sitting at Starbucks in Vancouver right now getting some work done and I just met an incredible, beautiful girl about and got her phone number.
Here’s how it went down.
I’m sitting in Starbucks with my laptop out in front of me.
A beautiful, tall brunette girl walks by and is in the line-up to order something.
I take off my headphones and think “Wow… she’s beautiful! I have to meet her.”
Now, generally when a woman is about to order something is the only time I tend to “wait” before approaching her. In most cases, I spot a beautiful woman and I just walk up and begin talking to her.
In this case, it can be somewhat uncomfortable if I begin talking to her while she has her wallet out and is interacting with the cashier. It will create an unnecessary pressure that both her and I don’t want.
So instead, I wait. I’m waiting for the right opportunity, which is either when:
1) She’s already paid and is patiently waiting and standing there for her coffee
2) She gets her coffee and is about to leave
3) She gets her coffee and then sits down to settle down
Those are the scenario’s of what could happen.
I decide to wait until after she orders her drink and when she’s waiting, which gives me enough time to engage her in a conversation.
Okay, so she’s there waiting.
I get up, walk over to her, smile and say “Hey… this might seem a bit random, but I noticed you from over there and I had to come over and meet you.”
Her reaction was: “Aww… thanks!”
I then ask her “What’s your name?”
She replies, “Samantha.”
I then introduce myself and ask her what she’s up to. She says she’s on her coffee break.
From there, I asked her what she does and I then began telling her what I’m up to today.
She said she’s really tired this morning because she was out last night having drinks for her friends birthday. I began teasing her for being a “party girl” and told her that I wouldn’t be able to hang out with her because of that.
This made her laugh and begin qualifying herself and saying “No, no… I’m not like that!”
After we joked, I spent some time getting to know her and invited her to sit down with me for a bit. She did, but mentioned she had to be back to work in 5 minutes.
After our conversation ended, SHE offered her phone number to me and told me to call her sometime. Nice!
It’s not uncommon for women to ASK YOU for your phone number or WANT to see you again when you’re confident, attractive and interesting.
This is a reality that a lot of men in Vancouver don’t realize when it comes to Vancouver Dating.
It’s rare and refreshing for a woman to meet men who have their act together, since they are sick of all the “regular” guys who stumble all over themselves and lack confidence.
After that, I sent her a text message saying “Hey beautiful it was nice meeting you!”
She replied: “Nice meeting you too call me sometime and well hangout!”
That’s how an interact should go. Mutual attraction.
No mind-games or tricks or anything.
Just being honest, fun and interesting.
This kind of stuff is pretty simple. It becomes EASY and FUN… ONLY when you have the right tools and follow the right principles.
I don’t need to recite all these “lines” or think of what to say. I’m just being me and having fun in the process.
The problem is, most of the “guru’s” or “experts” out there teach you how to manipulate a woman, or will teach you all these weird “lines” or tricks on how to interact with her.
It doesn’t have to be that complicated. And believe me, I’ve been there before!
Do you want to learn how to “be yourself” when meeting women in Vancouver?
If so, then you MUST check out a FREE Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminar.
You will get an opportunity meet the experts of Vancouver Dating and learn directly from them in 90-minutes their secrets to meeting women Vancouver, attracting women, dating vancouver women, how to get a girlfriend, how to get out of the friend zone, how to approach women, and more!
These are all people who GET RESULTS and KNOW WHAT THEY’RE DOING.
These are guys who have dated the most beautiful women in the world and have a consistent track-record to back it up. These are guys who have BEEN THERE BEFORE and can offer solutions to help and can guide you in the right direction.
They know their stuff.
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Vancouver Singles – Do You Want To Become Successful With Women?
Nov 9th
I want to share with you a bit about my life and the reality of becoming successful with women and dating in Vancouver for Vancouver Singles.
There are a lot of PRO’s to it, obviously. But also, there are some CON’s.
Let me share a few.
The PRO’s of being successful with women:
- You NEVER have to be lonely again. If you want to hang out with someone or go on a Vancouver date, you can literally step outside of your house and meet someone within minutes and be having coffee with them or drinks.
- You have MORE friends and people wanting to be around you. People admire you and look up to you. You gain respect from men, and MORE women want you. At this point, attracting women in Vancouver is easy and effortless.
- You have A LOT more fun in your life. A lot more adventures and crazy experiences that you can look back upon and will add a lot of meaning to your life. You will live a lot more interesting life.
- You don’t have to masturbate to porn or rely on anything like that anymore, because you now have an active sex life. You can have sex with someone any day of the week if you choose to.
- You have the OPTIONS or CHOICE of having being in a relationship or not. If you want to just have fun with women and date, that’s okay… but when you are ready for a relationship you can get into one on YOUR terms.
- You will attract HIGHER QUALITY women. Yes, you will attract the extremely beautiful women (the models, actresses, etc…) but also women with PERSONALITY which is extremely important.
- You will make MORE MONEY in your career due to better communication skills and more confidence. You will also have a better relationship with your family and friends because of this as well.
- You will start getting FREE STUFF! People will begin offering you things for free where ever you go, or at least discounts. This is the benefit of being social and having people like you.
- You won’t have to worry about your girlfriend breaking up with you or cheating on you with another guy. YOU will be the one in control and are able to keep her attracted and interested in you.
- You won’t have to worry about SETTLING for a girl that you may not be interested in later in life. Think of getting married because you don’t have many options and then realizing it was a mistake, only to get divorced?
- Your quality of life goes up drastically. You become a lot happier and fulfilled. You will feel this area is something you can control and no longer feel helpless in social situations or in dating.
- You have a better personality and more confidence. More and more good things begin to happen to you because you’re so positive and feel great. Things begin manifesting in your life!
- You get to experience the BEST of what life has to offer. You get to experience MORE love, connection, joy, fulfillment, happiness, excitement, adventure, fun, spontaneity, security, comfort, etc…
- You can totally nail any job interview you want and can talk your way into things. You are also really good at influencing people or even in sales and marketing.
Okay, now for some of the CON’s of becoming successful with women for Vancouver Singles:
- You begin attracting A LOT of women. All of a sudden women you have many women calling you and wanting to hang out with you. Someone women will begin to stalk you or prank call you at random hours of the day. You will also begin attracting women you may not be interested in by mistake.
- Some people won’t like you. In fact, some people will hate you. When you begin dating some beautiful women, there will be their insecure guy “friends” who secretly have a crush on her and will also secretly despise you for dating
her. They are jealous.
- You will be a lot busier. A lot of your free time will be occupied with women and friends. People are constantly wanting to hang out with you. Sometimes you will go to hang out with a girl and you will end up hanging out with her a lot more than you expected and it can distract you from other things going on. Sometimes you end up sleeping in with women or staying up extremely late with them as well.
- You won’t be able to relate to or hang out with certain people. The people that are negative or hold you back or are “takers” will just feel like people who are sucking your energy away. You will begin to avoid people like this and
may lose some friends. You will attract and be around higher level people, though.
- Some women will just use you just for sex. Yes… this happens. And yes, this can be a problem.
- Sometimes you will have to deal with some of the drama that comes along with certain women. The higher quality the woman, the more she will test you or challenge you. You may also have to deal with some of their flakey behavior
at times or the moodiness some women have. The good news is you learn to deal with this well when you become successful.
- When you get an attractive girlfriend, you will have to deal with her coming home to tell you about all the guys that approached her or were hitting on her. Learning to become comfortable with this is something you will gain and you will also learn not to care or be jealous.
- There are needy women out there who will constantly try to get into a relationship with you or want to be with you all the time. You have to learn to say no and stay focused in your life.
- You will have “female friends” in your life but secretly have a crush on you. It’s like they are in YOUR friends zone. They will come out to hang out with you and will want you.
These are some of the REALITIES from my own life and experience with women.
This is the HONEST TRUTH.
Yes… the PRO’s outweigh the con’s for sure.
As for the CON’s… I don’t really view them as bad things at all, because they are just things that you learn to handle and deal with as you become more successful with women and Vancouver Dating.
They are what I call “High Quality Problems.”
They are problems that you WANT to have.
If you’re ready to reap the benefits of success with women and dating, then I recommend you take the next step and attend a FREE Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminar. They are hosted EVERY THURSDAY in Vancouver.
These are 90-minute sessions on different aspects of Vancouver Dating – how to escape the friend zone, how to get a phone number, how to approach women, how to kiss a woman, how to attract women, how to get a girlfriend, etc…
You can sign-up now at:
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Take care!
Stefan
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Vancouver Seduction – How to Attract Extremely Beautiful Women in Vancouver
Nov 4th
The MORE beautiful and attractive a woman is… the EASIER she is to attract.
Yes, you heard me!
Most men in Vancouver think the opposite.
Usually on our Vancouver Dating Transformations Bootcamp, the people that attend begin to agree with me and have that paradigm shift.
Beautiful women AREN’T SCARY!
In fact, they are friendly, open and very nice.
The really beautiful women can SENSE when you are genuine. They can sense when you are HONEST. And they can tell right away that you are different.
How?
Well, the most beautiful women in Vancouver are extremely intuitive. They get approached all the time by men who are trying to TAKE something from them and are being dishonest and manipulative.
Based on this, they can tell VERY easily.
In fact, it’s REFRESHING for them. They aren’t used to it and they want something different.
You see, VERY beautiful women in Vancouver have a lot of options and choices.
Because of this, they don’t base things solely on LOOKS.
Why? Because they’ve already dated the good-looking guys. They are MORE attracted to personality. When it comes to Dating Vancouver women, they want men who are confident and have their lives together.
Just like for me, I am no longer attracted to women just because they are beautiful. Why? Because I’ve already dated all the beautiful women. I am after women of HIGH QUALITY.
Guess what… SHE IS TOO!
When a guy comes along who is HONEST, GENUINE, AUTHENTIC, CONFIDENT, REAL, FUNNY, CHARMING, CHARISMATIC and has his life together… she is attracted.
She can tell RIGHT AWAY.
This is something important to understand when it comes to Dating Vancouver women.
She can sense it. She knows by the words that come out of your mouth and how you behave. She knows you are a man who is comfortable amongst women and lives his life with integrity and purpose.
It’s all about BEING ATTRACTIVE, rather than doing attraction.
The more you grow and become attractive, the more beautiful Vancouver women you will attract in your life and the higher quality women will attract into your life as well.
But it all starts with YOU.
This is why we hosted the Free Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminars for Men, so you can continually improve yourself every single week so that you can attract those women that you once thought were “out of your league.”
The Free Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminars are held every Thursday in Vancouver and they are 90-minute sessions on different topics of Vancouver Dating and meeting women.
We also have a Free Video that will share with you a preview from the seminars and some secrets to meeting and attracting women in Vancouver.
You can get it NOW here:
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I look forward to talking to you again soon!
Now, get out there and start meeting women!
Cheers,
Stefan
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Vancouver Dating – How to Attract Women in Vancouver
Nov 3rd
In order for you to be able to attract women, it’s important for you to understand that you must first learn how to be ATTRACTIVE to women!
It’s simple, women are attracted to men who are attractive. And “attractive” doesn’t mean being good looking, having lots of money, or being famous. This is something extremely important you must understand about Vancouver Dating. Let me explain…
First, it’s important to understand that women are very emotional. They aren’t as logical as us men.
So, while a woman may SAY that she is attracted to men who are 6′3″, look like Brad Pitt, and have lots of women… what she EMOTIONALLY RESPONDS TO is completely different!
Here’s an important thing to remember about Dating Vancouver women:
“What a woman says she wants and what she responds to are two completely different things.”
So, you’re in luck, you don’t have to worry about your looks or having “material” things to approach and attract women. Women are in fact more attracted to PERSONALITY above looks. Fortunately for us, women aren’t as shallow as us men… 
There are certain qualities that make men attractive to women. First and foremost, the most important one is CONFIDENCE.
Women in Vancouver are attracted to men of confidence! Which means that you need to have the confidence to be able to approach women and be able to take charge and be the leader. It’s this masculinity and fundamental strength that women are attracted to. The reason they are attracted to strong, confident, masculine men (dating back to the caveman days and still in merit today), is because women want to feel SAFE and PROTECTED.
This stuff is VERY important when it comes to Vancouver Dating.
They want the alpha male, so that if things go down, she knows she can feel safe being with you. She knows that you will be able to take care of things and be the MAN.
If you’re a sissy, then who can she depend on to take care of things? Does that mean she is going to have to step up and take care of things? She doesn’t want that. Not at all…
Being confident and comfortable with yourself means not feeling nervous or anxiety around talking to her or approaching her. It means being open, honest, and direct – not being afraid to express who you are or what you want.
There are many other qualities that are attractive to Vancouver women. Qualities such as being charismatic, having a good sense of humor, being playful and fun, adventerous and spontaneous, being interesting, dominant, and many more. It’s about building your personality and learning how to be comfortable with yourself.
If you want to be successful with Dating Vancouver women, then these qualities are extremely vital.
Here’s a news flash:
If your current personality and who you are isn’t ATTRACTING WOMEN, then the truth is you probably don’t have a very attractive personality to women. If that is the case, then it’s time to develop that attractive personality and learn how to successfully attract Vancouver single women
You will know when you have that attractive personality, because you will notice Vancouver single women suddenly wanting to be around you!
There is a lot to developing an attractive personality and learning how to attract women, which can’t really be explained much in one single article.
If you’re curious, I would say to check out the FREE Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminars for Men that are held every Thursday in Vancouver. These are 90-minute sessions focused on different aspects of Vancouver Dating.
By attending a Free Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminar, you will get an opportunity to learn tips and advice on how you can become more attractive to women and attract MORE women into your life!
Hope this helps,
Stefan
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Vancouver Dating Services – How To Get A Girlfriend in Vancouver
Nov 2nd
What Are The Best Vancouver Dating Services For Men? Lifestyle Transformations & the Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminars.
First, it’s important to understand that this is a topic that I spent YEARS trying to figure out and now have discovered the solution. I never had a girlfriend in high school, due to being shy and dorky, and having a girlfriend was something that I wanted more than anything in the world.
I’m going to share with you some powerful information that we teach at the Free Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminars – one of the best Vancouver Dating Services for Men.
The reason why most people who want a girlfriend never get one is because they are WANTING A GIRLFRIEND. Confused? It’s okay, let me explain…
The problem with WANTING a girlfriend is that it implies neediness and is an attempt to fill a missing void inside of you.
You see, most men get into a relationship for the wrong reasons. They get into a relationship out of neediness, or an attempt to fill a missing void or emptiness inside of them, to feel validated or happy, or because they are unhappy with themselves and want to escape the pain of being lonely.
When you WANT a girlfriend, it is communicated outwardly with every woman that you meet. She can sense this neediness from a mile away. Which is why it’s important to learn how to be happy and comfortable with yourself first, before you’re ready to get into a relationship.
If this is your challenge, I recommend checking out one of the best Vancouver Dating Services out there – Lifestyle Transformations and attend a Free Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminar for Men.
When you’re completely happy with yourself, comfortable in your own skin, have many options and choices, and feeling a sense of ABUNDANCE… then all of a sudden you don’t need to WANT a girlfriend or even need to FIND a girlfriend, but they will FIND YOU!
I know it sounds strange, but it’s 100% true. The reason is because instantly you are coming from a place of abundance, instead of scarcity, and women can sense it. They will literally be jumping out from behind bushes and fire hydrants to date you.
Have you ever heard the expression “You usually find love when you’re not looking for it”? This is also true.
To get a girlfriend, you must change your focus from going out to find a girlfriend to instead focusing on yourself and improving yourself. The more that YOU develop and improve yourself, the more attractive you become. The more attractive that you become, the more women you will attract. The more women that you attract, the more options and choices you will have, thus putting you in a position to have that amazing, incredible girlfriend that you have always dreamed about.
For myself personally, I spent years focused on self-growth and becoming more attractive to women. I started by learning how to approach beautiful women, how to have conversations with them, how to be playful, fun, flirtatious, how to use touch and escalate things to the next level, how to be more confident, and how to successfully date women. It completely transformed my life forever. I’m a totally different person now than ever before.
I used to be shy, lonely, frustrated with women, and insecure with myself… WANTING that girlfriend.
Not anymore… today I have unlimited options and choices with women and dating. I can get into a relationship because I CHOOSE to be, which means I don’t have to “settle” with the first girl that comes by. I have choice. I have options. I have abundance!
Over the last few years, we created Lifestyle Transformations – one of the best Vancouver Dating Services for Men.
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Hope this helped you out,
Stefan
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Singles Dating Vancouver – 14 Best Places To Meet Women in Vancouver
Nov 1st
I decided to post an article called Singles Dating Vancouver, the 14 Best Places to Meet Women in Vancouver. This is not just for Vancouver, but these are locations everywhere in the world.
1) THE BAR OR LOUNGE
This is the most obvious one that comes to Vancouver Singles (along with nightclubs). There are a many reasons why bars are a great location to meet women and Dating Vancouver women:
A) There are usually a LOT of women in these locations.
B) Women are more open and in a “social” mood, expecting to meet and interact with people.
C) It’s easy to escalate things with a woman at a bar, as touching is more natural and acceptable (such as putting your arm around her when you lean in to talk to her).
D) Women are usually all dolled up and looking beautiful!
There’s many more reasons why bars and lounges are great. The difference between a nightclub and a bar is that a bar is more low-key and the music isn’t as loud or crazy, which makes things easier to mingle and meet women and Dating Vancouver women.
As a side note, if you’re older there are generally older crowds in different parts of your city. For example, you can find some bars where the women will be in their 30’s, 40’s and even 50’s. And of course, there are bars with younger women in their 20’s.
2) NIGHTCLUBS
Similar to bars, but also different. Nightclubs are more loud, crazy, and there’s usually dancing involved. The women at nightclubs are usually younger, where as a bar you can find older crowds at different locations.
Generally, meeting women and Dating Vancouver women in nightclubs requires you to be dominant and authoritative. You need to be fun and playful, be able to project your voice, and command attention. Using touch and physical escalation is in fact EASIER in this environment.
Now, nightclubs and bars are good places to meet women… HOWEVER, it depends what you’re looking for. If you’re looking for a relationship or something meaningful, then it’s a bit more challenging to find (not always, though!). Nightclubs and bars are more ideal if you’re looking to have fun, casual dating, or hooking up. But, with that being said, I have also met many incredible Vancouver women at bars and have had great relationships with them as well.
3) THE STREET
Probably one of my favorite locations! It can be challenging to meet people on the street, since people are on the move and can sometimes be in a hurry or have a time constraint. For some reason, I love being able to sweep a woman off her feet when they’re not expecting it! Meeting a woman on the street involves being able to effectively stop her and get her attention, and also making her feel comfortable with interacting with you (will be covering this later).
It’s a great way to meet and a woman because she isn’t expecting it and it makes you different than everyone else! If you can find a popular, busy street (a shopping area or touristy area) in your city, then you will find a ton of women there. The street is convenient because when you walk to work, the store, or anywhere, you can see an attractive woman and stop her and have a conversation with her.
I’ve had a lot of success Dating Vancouver women that I’ve met on the street.
4) SHOPPING MALL
Also a great place, since women love shopping, of course! You will always find women at the mall. Find the female clothing stores and you just struck gold! Usually for me, if I spot a girl inside a clothing store I just walk right in and have a conversation with her there. So many guys are worried about going into female clothing stores! It’s no big deal, just be honest. “Hey, I was walking by and I saw you walk into this store and I had to come up and meet you. My name is Stefan.”
5) COFFEE SHOPS
The awesome thing about coffee shops is that women are usually more stationary in these environments. They aren’t in a hurry or on the move as much, and can sometimes be sitting down. This gives you an opportunity to sit down with them and engage in longer conversations with them. My favorite way to meet a woman in a coffee shop is to just sit down with her and start talking.
If you work at home like I do, then make an effort a few times per week to do work at a busy coffee shop with your laptop. I guarantee you won’t get much work done, as there will be a ton of women coming in and out of these places!
Yes… Vancouver Dating can be a distraction at times!
6) GROCERY STORE
Everyone needs to buy groceries. Again, this is a location where women don’t expect men to approach them (basically, anywhere outside of a nightclub/bar and women won’t expect to be approached). I use the fact that they aren’t expecting it to my advantage. The grocery store is a place where you don’t have to spend time out of your schedule to meet women. You are going to buy groceries anyway, so why not talk to the girl next to you in the line up?
If you want to be successful Dating Vancouver women, then you MUST make it a part of your life.
7) THE BOOK STORE
Great place, as it’s very quiet and laid-back. You can ask what books they are into and share what books you’re in to (if you like reading like I do!). The only problem is, finding beautiful women at bookstores is more of a rarity. But, they do go there sometimes! Be sure to check the magazine racks…
RESTAURANTS
Another great place. Can be challenging at times, since people are eating. But, I’ve had a lot of success at restaurants. Also, generally the servers and waitresses are extremely beautiful in these environments. Not to mention the hostesses too! If you’re going to talk to the staff (same goes for retail), keep in mind that they have a time-constraint and generally have to work, which means you only have a few minutes to interact with them and get their phone number.
9) FESTIVALS & CONCERTS
In my opinion, possibly one of the best places now that I think about it! People are in a open, fun and friendly mood. It can be similar to a nightclub/bar, as generally there is music and drinking involved. I recommend to stay up to date with the latest events in your city and find out what’s going on. Festivals and events also make for a great place to take a woman out on a date.
10) THE BEACH
I am fortunate enough to live a block away from the beach, which makes things very fun for me as there are beautiful women everywhere! Women love the beach. They love to go tanning or just laying in the sun or hangout with their friends. On a sunny day, any given beach will be jam-packed with women. Women are also usually just sitting around, which makes it that much easier, as they aren’t going anywhere. It makes it easy for you to just sit down with them and have an hour long conversation. I definitely recommend the beach!
Especially in Vancouver we have Kitsilano and English Bay. These are great spots for meeting Vancouver Singles.
11) THE BUS
Any form of public transportation is fantastic. It’s another situation where a woman is standing or sitting in one spot for a long time (usually extremely bored, might I add) and all you have to do is introduce yourself, ask her how her day is going and where she’s headed.
I walk to visit my chiropractor 2-3 times per week (wasn’t in an accident or anything, but I’m a health nut and enjoy staying perfectly aligned 
, and nearby there is our “skytrain” and a big bus station. Anytime between 4PM and 6PM and it is just loaded with women who are getting off work or school.
12) SCHOOL
Man, oh man, do I wish that I went to University or College! If you go to school, you have a major advantage! One advantage is usually you get to see the same women again and again, which means you can get to know that woman over a period of time, which is a plus. Also, it’s usually the same age-group as you and there is opportunity for a lot of commonalities. There’s also an opportunity to meet women through mutual friends in this environment.
13) HOUSE PARTIES
Another excellent location! People are generally more open and friendly at house parties than nightclubs or bars (or anywhere else for that matter), as the fact that you are at the party is social proof. It implies that you know someone or the host from that party. It’s also a place where it’s difficult to get rejected or blown off since there is a chance that you and her both know the same person who invited you there. It’s extremely, extremely easy to meet women at house parties, it’s not even funny! What I recommend is to ask around, use Facebook, or throw some house parties yourself.
I used to live in a big house with 8 other guys called “Project Vancouver” and we used to host parties every month, and I can’t tell you how much fun it was and what a great way it was to meet women! If you host the party yourself, all the better.
14) DANCE CLASSES, YOGA CLASSES, ETC…
These places are usually a gold mine. It’s simple, all you have to think is “what to women enjoy?” If you start thinking like women, you will find women. My friend Cheyenne is a salsa dancer and he always mentions how his salsa classes are loaded with girls. In environments such as dance classes, yoga classes, etc… there will always be WAY more women than men. Not a bad ratio, eh? 
That’s all I have off the top of my head for now. These are MY favorite places to meet women. If you know of any other great ones, feel free to comment and share. But ultimately, you can meet women ANYWHERE!
“Where ever women are, they can be met.”
There’s my new quote of the day.
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Good luck!
Stefan
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Dating Vancouver – How to Get Out Of The Friend Zone
Oct 31st
Dating Vancouver Secrets for Vancouver Singles…. READ ON!
Is there a woman that you REALLY like or have a crush on, but you don’t know whether or not she likes you back? Or, she just views you as “the friend” and doesn’t feel the same way back?
This is what I call “the friend zone.” Here are some Vancouver Dating tips on how to get out of the friend zone with a woman.
STATING YOUR INTENT
First, it’s important to know what you did wrong so that you can avoid it in the future.
The reason why you are in the “friend zone” with this girl, is because you failed to STATE YOUR INTENT.
One of the most important things when first meeting a woman is for her to know what your intent is. How you set up the relationship with a woman right at the beginning is crucial to whether or not you will be “the friend” or “the boyfriend.”
If a woman doesn’t know what your intent is, and you don’t clearly communicate to her that you are interested in her more than “just friends”, then she will simply ASSUME that you are friends. You don’t want this to happen.
If immediately let her know when you meet her that you like her and have an interest in her, then you will avoid being slotted in that category. There are different ways of doing this, which don’t have to be as direct as saying “I like you.”
For example, you can express your interest in a woman you first meet by looking in her eyes a certain way, by playfully teasing her or touching her in a flirtatious manner, or by expressing interest in her by asking certain questions. Those are more subtle ways. A more direct way of letting her know immediately could be simply giving her a genuine compliment and letting her know that you think she looks great today, or beautiful, or really pretty.
You want to begin doing this kind of stuff right when you meet her. The longer you wait, the weirder it gets, because as time goes on you’re digging yourself more deeply in the “friend zone.”
It’s also important to be escalating things with the woman and leading things to the next level – especially for Dating Vancouver women. For example, if you’re going out with a girl and you’re waiting until the 5th date to kiss her, by that point it may be too late and she will feel uncomfortable by that because at that point she just assumed you guys were friends.
You always want to be moving things forward with Vancouver women and be clear about your intent. She should know that you are attracted to her. And part of being a man is being comfortable with expressing your desires and interest in someone else. She will find it attractive, believe me!
Now, if you are already Dating Vancouver women and are in the friend zone and you’re asking how to get out, what you need to do is begin by applying some of the strategies that I mentioned above. Begin flirting with her differently, playfully teasing her and touching her more frequently (keep the touches light and brief at the beginning), and giving her more compliments.
Next time you see that Vancouver girl, tell her how beautiful she looks today or say something like “You know, I didn’t notice this before, but you have really amazing eyes!” Begin dropping hints slowly and gradually. The key here is SLOWLY and GRADUALLY. You don’t want to come out of the blue and freak her out and make her uncomfortable.
You want to ease into this. What you are essentially doing and what I am talking about here is generating ATTRACTION! What is going to happen is all of a sudden she is going to begin thinking of you and seeing you differently. Eventually, things may escalating to a more sexual or intimate stage, which I assume is what you want.
When you get to that more sexual and intimate level with her, then you’re officially out of the friend zone. Congratulations!
But, I hope the biggest thing you learned here is to AVOID the friend zone all together.
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Hope these tips make a difference for you!
Stefan
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Dating Vancouver – How to Approach Women in Vancouver
Oct 30th
There are beautiful women everywhere in Vancouver – on the street, at the grocery store, at shopping malls, coffee shops, book stores, nightclubs, lounges, and bars. But, the question is… do you know how to approach women and the secrets to Dating Vancouver women?
Learning the ability to approach and meet any woman, anytime, anywhere is an incredible skill set to have. It’s something that will make you stand out and different than 99% of Vancouver singles out there.
For example, the other day I was walking downtown Vancouver to visit my chiropractor. It was a beautiful sunny after noon in Vancouver, and walking down the street in front of me I spotted a beautiful brunette girl. She had her headphones on and seemed like she was in a hurry.
I sped up to catch up to her and was able to get her attention by gently tapping her shoulder and signaling for her to take off her head phones. She took them off, and I smiled and introduced myself. She smiled back and then the magic began! I ended up talking with her for a good 30 minutes and getting her phone number.
The interesting thing was, about 10 minutes into the conversation she mentioned how she has been a Vancouver Single and has been Dating Vancouver for over 5 years now and I am the FIRST GUY who has approached her in broad daylight. She told me after wards how it was such a confident thing to do and something that “made her day,” as she put it.
Okay, so how did I do it? What did I say? What is the secrets to Dating Vancouver women? How do you escape the Vancouver Singles club?
It’s actually simple. I’ve done this probably 10,000 times by this point. Here are some important points to remember when approaching women in Vancouver:
1) GET HER ATTENTION
This is the most important thing. You don’t want to freak her out or make her feel uncomfortable. A Vancouver girl needs to feel comfortable talking to you. She needs to see you coming.
Simple ways you can get her attention would be to gently tap her on the shoulder or elbow (if she is turned away from you), yelling “HEY!” to her with a big smile on your face, or even saying “Excuse me…”
2) PACE HER REALITY WITH A SOFTENER
Once you have her attention, the first thing she is probably thinking is “What does this person want? What’s going on?” This happens especially during the day time, since it’s not really “normal” or common for Vancouver guys to approach women during the day.
You need to pace her reality and make her feel at ease with the situation. I call this a “softener”, which is basically saying to her “Listen, I know this might sound a bit odd…” or “This might sound a bit strange…” or “I know this might seem a bit random and doesn’t normally happen, but…”
By letting her know approaching or stopping her is a bit random or strange, by pacing her reality, she will feel begin to feel comfortable interacting with you. She will feel “understood” and at ease with things.
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3) STATE YOUR INTENT
Once you have her attention and have made her feel comfortable, you want to let her know WHY you’ve stopped her or are talking to her. The important thing here is to BE HONEST.
First, why did you approach her in the first place? Is it because you think she is attractive? Is it because you want to get to know her? Is it because you think she has an interesting style?
Whatever the reason is, be open and honest with her and don’t be afraid to communicate that. Simply say to her “I had to stop you because I think you look beautiful and I wanted to come up and tell you that.”
Or say to her “Listen, you seem like a lot of fun and I wanted to come over and say hi.” Or “I had to come over and introduce myself. I’m Stefan.”
It’s being genuine, authentic and honest.
Now, remember you still want to make her feel COMFORTABLE. So by going up to her and saying “I want to have sex with you” might not slide very well. It may be the reason why you’re approaching her, but it’s something that is going to creep her out. I recommend keeping it low-key, give a genuine compliment, and OFFER VALUE.
Make your outcome first to make her feel good and to add value to her life. If you can do that, then she’s going to WANT to talk to you and be around you.
This is called “Offering Value”, which is the attitude you MUST have when approaching women in Vancouver, attracting Vancouver women and for Dating Vancouver.
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Hope this helps,
Stefan
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