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Free Vancouver Dating Advice for Men on Attracting Women
Free Vancouver Dating Advice for Men on Attracting Women
Nov 1st
I decided to post an article called Singles Dating Vancouver, the 14 Best Places to Meet Women in Vancouver. This is not just for Vancouver, but these are locations everywhere in the world.
1) THE BAR OR LOUNGE
This is the most obvious one that comes to Vancouver Singles (along with nightclubs). There are a many reasons why bars are a great location to meet women and Dating Vancouver women:
A) There are usually a LOT of women in these locations.
B) Women are more open and in a “social” mood, expecting to meet and interact with people.
C) It’s easy to escalate things with a woman at a bar, as touching is more natural and acceptable (such as putting your arm around her when you lean in to talk to her).
D) Women are usually all dolled up and looking beautiful!
There’s many more reasons why bars and lounges are great. The difference between a nightclub and a bar is that a bar is more low-key and the music isn’t as loud or crazy, which makes things easier to mingle and meet women and Dating Vancouver women.
As a side note, if you’re older there are generally older crowds in different parts of your city. For example, you can find some bars where the women will be in their 30’s, 40’s and even 50’s. And of course, there are bars with younger women in their 20’s.
2) NIGHTCLUBS
Similar to bars, but also different. Nightclubs are more loud, crazy, and there’s usually dancing involved. The women at nightclubs are usually younger, where as a bar you can find older crowds at different locations.
Generally, meeting women and Dating Vancouver women in nightclubs requires you to be dominant and authoritative. You need to be fun and playful, be able to project your voice, and command attention. Using touch and physical escalation is in fact EASIER in this environment.
Now, nightclubs and bars are good places to meet women… HOWEVER, it depends what you’re looking for. If you’re looking for a relationship or something meaningful, then it’s a bit more challenging to find (not always, though!). Nightclubs and bars are more ideal if you’re looking to have fun, casual dating, or hooking up. But, with that being said, I have also met many incredible Vancouver women at bars and have had great relationships with them as well.
3) THE STREET
Probably one of my favorite locations! It can be challenging to meet people on the street, since people are on the move and can sometimes be in a hurry or have a time constraint. For some reason, I love being able to sweep a woman off her feet when they’re not expecting it! Meeting a woman on the street involves being able to effectively stop her and get her attention, and also making her feel comfortable with interacting with you (will be covering this later).
It’s a great way to meet and a woman because she isn’t expecting it and it makes you different than everyone else! If you can find a popular, busy street (a shopping area or touristy area) in your city, then you will find a ton of women there. The street is convenient because when you walk to work, the store, or anywhere, you can see an attractive woman and stop her and have a conversation with her.
I’ve had a lot of success Dating Vancouver women that I’ve met on the street.
4) SHOPPING MALL
Also a great place, since women love shopping, of course! You will always find women at the mall. Find the female clothing stores and you just struck gold! Usually for me, if I spot a girl inside a clothing store I just walk right in and have a conversation with her there. So many guys are worried about going into female clothing stores! It’s no big deal, just be honest. “Hey, I was walking by and I saw you walk into this store and I had to come up and meet you. My name is Stefan.” ![]()
5) COFFEE SHOPS
The awesome thing about coffee shops is that women are usually more stationary in these environments. They aren’t in a hurry or on the move as much, and can sometimes be sitting down. This gives you an opportunity to sit down with them and engage in longer conversations with them. My favorite way to meet a woman in a coffee shop is to just sit down with her and start talking.
If you work at home like I do, then make an effort a few times per week to do work at a busy coffee shop with your laptop. I guarantee you won’t get much work done, as there will be a ton of women coming in and out of these places!
Yes… Vancouver Dating can be a distraction at times!
6) GROCERY STORE
Everyone needs to buy groceries. Again, this is a location where women don’t expect men to approach them (basically, anywhere outside of a nightclub/bar and women won’t expect to be approached). I use the fact that they aren’t expecting it to my advantage. The grocery store is a place where you don’t have to spend time out of your schedule to meet women. You are going to buy groceries anyway, so why not talk to the girl next to you in the line up?
If you want to be successful Dating Vancouver women, then you MUST make it a part of your life.
7) THE BOOK STORE
Great place, as it’s very quiet and laid-back. You can ask what books they are into and share what books you’re in to (if you like reading like I do!). The only problem is, finding beautiful women at bookstores is more of a rarity. But, they do go there sometimes! Be sure to check the magazine racks… ![]()
RESTAURANTS
Another great place. Can be challenging at times, since people are eating. But, I’ve had a lot of success at restaurants. Also, generally the servers and waitresses are extremely beautiful in these environments. Not to mention the hostesses too! If you’re going to talk to the staff (same goes for retail), keep in mind that they have a time-constraint and generally have to work, which means you only have a few minutes to interact with them and get their phone number.
9) FESTIVALS & CONCERTS
In my opinion, possibly one of the best places now that I think about it! People are in a open, fun and friendly mood. It can be similar to a nightclub/bar, as generally there is music and drinking involved. I recommend to stay up to date with the latest events in your city and find out what’s going on. Festivals and events also make for a great place to take a woman out on a date.
10) THE BEACH
I am fortunate enough to live a block away from the beach, which makes things very fun for me as there are beautiful women everywhere! Women love the beach. They love to go tanning or just laying in the sun or hangout with their friends. On a sunny day, any given beach will be jam-packed with women. Women are also usually just sitting around, which makes it that much easier, as they aren’t going anywhere. It makes it easy for you to just sit down with them and have an hour long conversation. I definitely recommend the beach!
Especially in Vancouver we have Kitsilano and English Bay. These are great spots for meeting Vancouver Singles.
11) THE BUS
Any form of public transportation is fantastic. It’s another situation where a woman is standing or sitting in one spot for a long time (usually extremely bored, might I add) and all you have to do is introduce yourself, ask her how her day is going and where she’s headed.
I walk to visit my chiropractor 2-3 times per week (wasn’t in an accident or anything, but I’m a health nut and enjoy staying perfectly aligned
, and nearby there is our “skytrain” and a big bus station. Anytime between 4PM and 6PM and it is just loaded with women who are getting off work or school.
12) SCHOOL
Man, oh man, do I wish that I went to University or College! If you go to school, you have a major advantage! One advantage is usually you get to see the same women again and again, which means you can get to know that woman over a period of time, which is a plus. Also, it’s usually the same age-group as you and there is opportunity for a lot of commonalities. There’s also an opportunity to meet women through mutual friends in this environment.
13) HOUSE PARTIES
Another excellent location! People are generally more open and friendly at house parties than nightclubs or bars (or anywhere else for that matter), as the fact that you are at the party is social proof. It implies that you know someone or the host from that party. It’s also a place where it’s difficult to get rejected or blown off since there is a chance that you and her both know the same person who invited you there. It’s extremely, extremely easy to meet women at house parties, it’s not even funny! What I recommend is to ask around, use Facebook, or throw some house parties yourself.
I used to live in a big house with 8 other guys called “Project Vancouver” and we used to host parties every month, and I can’t tell you how much fun it was and what a great way it was to meet women! If you host the party yourself, all the better. ![]()
14) DANCE CLASSES, YOGA CLASSES, ETC…
These places are usually a gold mine. It’s simple, all you have to think is “what to women enjoy?” If you start thinking like women, you will find women. My friend Cheyenne is a salsa dancer and he always mentions how his salsa classes are loaded with girls. In environments such as dance classes, yoga classes, etc… there will always be WAY more women than men. Not a bad ratio, eh? ![]()
That’s all I have off the top of my head for now. These are MY favorite places to meet women. If you know of any other great ones, feel free to comment and share. But ultimately, you can meet women ANYWHERE!
“Where ever women are, they can be met.”
There’s my new quote of the day. ![]()
Now… if you REALLY want to get your Vancouver Dating success handled, then I recommend you check out the Free Dating Service for Men called Lifestyle Transformations.
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Good luck!
Stefan
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Oct 31st
Dating Vancouver Secrets for Vancouver Singles…. READ ON!
Is there a woman that you REALLY like or have a crush on, but you don’t know whether or not she likes you back? Or, she just views you as “the friend” and doesn’t feel the same way back?
This is what I call “the friend zone.” Here are some Vancouver Dating tips on how to get out of the friend zone with a woman.
STATING YOUR INTENT
First, it’s important to know what you did wrong so that you can avoid it in the future.
The reason why you are in the “friend zone” with this girl, is because you failed to STATE YOUR INTENT.
One of the most important things when first meeting a woman is for her to know what your intent is. How you set up the relationship with a woman right at the beginning is crucial to whether or not you will be “the friend” or “the boyfriend.”
If a woman doesn’t know what your intent is, and you don’t clearly communicate to her that you are interested in her more than “just friends”, then she will simply ASSUME that you are friends. You don’t want this to happen.
If immediately let her know when you meet her that you like her and have an interest in her, then you will avoid being slotted in that category. There are different ways of doing this, which don’t have to be as direct as saying “I like you.”
For example, you can express your interest in a woman you first meet by looking in her eyes a certain way, by playfully teasing her or touching her in a flirtatious manner, or by expressing interest in her by asking certain questions. Those are more subtle ways. A more direct way of letting her know immediately could be simply giving her a genuine compliment and letting her know that you think she looks great today, or beautiful, or really pretty.
You want to begin doing this kind of stuff right when you meet her. The longer you wait, the weirder it gets, because as time goes on you’re digging yourself more deeply in the “friend zone.”
It’s also important to be escalating things with the woman and leading things to the next level – especially for Dating Vancouver women. For example, if you’re going out with a girl and you’re waiting until the 5th date to kiss her, by that point it may be too late and she will feel uncomfortable by that because at that point she just assumed you guys were friends.
You always want to be moving things forward with Vancouver women and be clear about your intent. She should know that you are attracted to her. And part of being a man is being comfortable with expressing your desires and interest in someone else. She will find it attractive, believe me!
Now, if you are already Dating Vancouver women and are in the friend zone and you’re asking how to get out, what you need to do is begin by applying some of the strategies that I mentioned above. Begin flirting with her differently, playfully teasing her and touching her more frequently (keep the touches light and brief at the beginning), and giving her more compliments.
Next time you see that Vancouver girl, tell her how beautiful she looks today or say something like “You know, I didn’t notice this before, but you have really amazing eyes!” Begin dropping hints slowly and gradually. The key here is SLOWLY and GRADUALLY. You don’t want to come out of the blue and freak her out and make her uncomfortable.
You want to ease into this. What you are essentially doing and what I am talking about here is generating ATTRACTION! What is going to happen is all of a sudden she is going to begin thinking of you and seeing you differently. Eventually, things may escalating to a more sexual or intimate stage, which I assume is what you want.
When you get to that more sexual and intimate level with her, then you’re officially out of the friend zone. Congratulations!
But, I hope the biggest thing you learned here is to AVOID the friend zone all together.
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Hope these tips make a difference for you!
Stefan
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Oct 30th
There are beautiful women everywhere in Vancouver – on the street, at the grocery store, at shopping malls, coffee shops, book stores, nightclubs, lounges, and bars. But, the question is… do you know how to approach women and the secrets to Dating Vancouver women?
Learning the ability to approach and meet any woman, anytime, anywhere is an incredible skill set to have. It’s something that will make you stand out and different than 99% of Vancouver singles out there.
For example, the other day I was walking downtown Vancouver to visit my chiropractor. It was a beautiful sunny after noon in Vancouver, and walking down the street in front of me I spotted a beautiful brunette girl. She had her headphones on and seemed like she was in a hurry.
I sped up to catch up to her and was able to get her attention by gently tapping her shoulder and signaling for her to take off her head phones. She took them off, and I smiled and introduced myself. She smiled back and then the magic began! I ended up talking with her for a good 30 minutes and getting her phone number.
The interesting thing was, about 10 minutes into the conversation she mentioned how she has been a Vancouver Single and has been Dating Vancouver for over 5 years now and I am the FIRST GUY who has approached her in broad daylight. She told me after wards how it was such a confident thing to do and something that “made her day,” as she put it.
Okay, so how did I do it? What did I say? What is the secrets to Dating Vancouver women? How do you escape the Vancouver Singles club?
It’s actually simple. I’ve done this probably 10,000 times by this point. Here are some important points to remember when approaching women in Vancouver:
1) GET HER ATTENTION
This is the most important thing. You don’t want to freak her out or make her feel uncomfortable. A Vancouver girl needs to feel comfortable talking to you. She needs to see you coming.
Simple ways you can get her attention would be to gently tap her on the shoulder or elbow (if she is turned away from you), yelling “HEY!” to her with a big smile on your face, or even saying “Excuse me…”
2) PACE HER REALITY WITH A SOFTENER
Once you have her attention, the first thing she is probably thinking is “What does this person want? What’s going on?” This happens especially during the day time, since it’s not really “normal” or common for Vancouver guys to approach women during the day.
You need to pace her reality and make her feel at ease with the situation. I call this a “softener”, which is basically saying to her “Listen, I know this might sound a bit odd…” or “This might sound a bit strange…” or “I know this might seem a bit random and doesn’t normally happen, but…”
By letting her know approaching or stopping her is a bit random or strange, by pacing her reality, she will feel begin to feel comfortable interacting with you. She will feel “understood” and at ease with things.
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3) STATE YOUR INTENT
Once you have her attention and have made her feel comfortable, you want to let her know WHY you’ve stopped her or are talking to her. The important thing here is to BE HONEST.
First, why did you approach her in the first place? Is it because you think she is attractive? Is it because you want to get to know her? Is it because you think she has an interesting style?
Whatever the reason is, be open and honest with her and don’t be afraid to communicate that. Simply say to her “I had to stop you because I think you look beautiful and I wanted to come up and tell you that.”
Or say to her “Listen, you seem like a lot of fun and I wanted to come over and say hi.” Or “I had to come over and introduce myself. I’m Stefan.”
It’s being genuine, authentic and honest.
Now, remember you still want to make her feel COMFORTABLE. So by going up to her and saying “I want to have sex with you” might not slide very well. It may be the reason why you’re approaching her, but it’s something that is going to creep her out. I recommend keeping it low-key, give a genuine compliment, and OFFER VALUE.
Make your outcome first to make her feel good and to add value to her life. If you can do that, then she’s going to WANT to talk to you and be around you.
This is called “Offering Value”, which is the attitude you MUST have when approaching women in Vancouver, attracting Vancouver women and for Dating Vancouver.
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Hope this helps,
Stefan
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