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Dating Vancouver – How to Get Out Of The Friend Zone
Oct 31st
Dating Vancouver Secrets for Vancouver Singles…. READ ON!
Is there a woman that you REALLY like or have a crush on, but you don’t know whether or not she likes you back? Or, she just views you as “the friend” and doesn’t feel the same way back?
This is what I call “the friend zone.” Here are some Vancouver Dating tips on how to get out of the friend zone with a woman.
STATING YOUR INTENT
First, it’s important to know what you did wrong so that you can avoid it in the future.
The reason why you are in the “friend zone” with this girl, is because you failed to STATE YOUR INTENT.
One of the most important things when first meeting a woman is for her to know what your intent is. How you set up the relationship with a woman right at the beginning is crucial to whether or not you will be “the friend” or “the boyfriend.”
If a woman doesn’t know what your intent is, and you don’t clearly communicate to her that you are interested in her more than “just friends”, then she will simply ASSUME that you are friends. You don’t want this to happen.
If immediately let her know when you meet her that you like her and have an interest in her, then you will avoid being slotted in that category. There are different ways of doing this, which don’t have to be as direct as saying “I like you.”
For example, you can express your interest in a woman you first meet by looking in her eyes a certain way, by playfully teasing her or touching her in a flirtatious manner, or by expressing interest in her by asking certain questions. Those are more subtle ways. A more direct way of letting her know immediately could be simply giving her a genuine compliment and letting her know that you think she looks great today, or beautiful, or really pretty.
You want to begin doing this kind of stuff right when you meet her. The longer you wait, the weirder it gets, because as time goes on you’re digging yourself more deeply in the “friend zone.”
It’s also important to be escalating things with the woman and leading things to the next level – especially for Dating Vancouver women. For example, if you’re going out with a girl and you’re waiting until the 5th date to kiss her, by that point it may be too late and she will feel uncomfortable by that because at that point she just assumed you guys were friends.
You always want to be moving things forward with Vancouver women and be clear about your intent. She should know that you are attracted to her. And part of being a man is being comfortable with expressing your desires and interest in someone else. She will find it attractive, believe me!
Now, if you are already Dating Vancouver women and are in the friend zone and you’re asking how to get out, what you need to do is begin by applying some of the strategies that I mentioned above. Begin flirting with her differently, playfully teasing her and touching her more frequently (keep the touches light and brief at the beginning), and giving her more compliments.
Next time you see that Vancouver girl, tell her how beautiful she looks today or say something like “You know, I didn’t notice this before, but you have really amazing eyes!” Begin dropping hints slowly and gradually. The key here is SLOWLY and GRADUALLY. You don’t want to come out of the blue and freak her out and make her uncomfortable.
You want to ease into this. What you are essentially doing and what I am talking about here is generating ATTRACTION! What is going to happen is all of a sudden she is going to begin thinking of you and seeing you differently. Eventually, things may escalating to a more sexual or intimate stage, which I assume is what you want.
When you get to that more sexual and intimate level with her, then you’re officially out of the friend zone. Congratulations!
But, I hope the biggest thing you learned here is to AVOID the friend zone all together.
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Hope these tips make a difference for you!
Stefan
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Dating Vancouver – How to Approach Women in Vancouver
Oct 30th
There are beautiful women everywhere in Vancouver – on the street, at the grocery store, at shopping malls, coffee shops, book stores, nightclubs, lounges, and bars. But, the question is… do you know how to approach women and the secrets to Dating Vancouver women?
Learning the ability to approach and meet any woman, anytime, anywhere is an incredible skill set to have. It’s something that will make you stand out and different than 99% of Vancouver singles out there.
For example, the other day I was walking downtown Vancouver to visit my chiropractor. It was a beautiful sunny after noon in Vancouver, and walking down the street in front of me I spotted a beautiful brunette girl. She had her headphones on and seemed like she was in a hurry.
I sped up to catch up to her and was able to get her attention by gently tapping her shoulder and signaling for her to take off her head phones. She took them off, and I smiled and introduced myself. She smiled back and then the magic began! I ended up talking with her for a good 30 minutes and getting her phone number.
The interesting thing was, about 10 minutes into the conversation she mentioned how she has been a Vancouver Single and has been Dating Vancouver for over 5 years now and I am the FIRST GUY who has approached her in broad daylight. She told me after wards how it was such a confident thing to do and something that “made her day,” as she put it.
Okay, so how did I do it? What did I say? What is the secrets to Dating Vancouver women? How do you escape the Vancouver Singles club?
It’s actually simple. I’ve done this probably 10,000 times by this point. Here are some important points to remember when approaching women in Vancouver:
1) GET HER ATTENTION
This is the most important thing. You don’t want to freak her out or make her feel uncomfortable. A Vancouver girl needs to feel comfortable talking to you. She needs to see you coming.
Simple ways you can get her attention would be to gently tap her on the shoulder or elbow (if she is turned away from you), yelling “HEY!” to her with a big smile on your face, or even saying “Excuse me…”
2) PACE HER REALITY WITH A SOFTENER
Once you have her attention, the first thing she is probably thinking is “What does this person want? What’s going on?” This happens especially during the day time, since it’s not really “normal” or common for Vancouver guys to approach women during the day.
You need to pace her reality and make her feel at ease with the situation. I call this a “softener”, which is basically saying to her “Listen, I know this might sound a bit odd…” or “This might sound a bit strange…” or “I know this might seem a bit random and doesn’t normally happen, but…”
By letting her know approaching or stopping her is a bit random or strange, by pacing her reality, she will feel begin to feel comfortable interacting with you. She will feel “understood” and at ease with things.
There are more Dating Vancouver Services out there that focus specifically on this.
3) STATE YOUR INTENT
Once you have her attention and have made her feel comfortable, you want to let her know WHY you’ve stopped her or are talking to her. The important thing here is to BE HONEST.
First, why did you approach her in the first place? Is it because you think she is attractive? Is it because you want to get to know her? Is it because you think she has an interesting style?
Whatever the reason is, be open and honest with her and don’t be afraid to communicate that. Simply say to her “I had to stop you because I think you look beautiful and I wanted to come up and tell you that.”
Or say to her “Listen, you seem like a lot of fun and I wanted to come over and say hi.” Or “I had to come over and introduce myself. I’m Stefan.”
It’s being genuine, authentic and honest.
Now, remember you still want to make her feel COMFORTABLE. So by going up to her and saying “I want to have sex with you” might not slide very well. It may be the reason why you’re approaching her, but it’s something that is going to creep her out. I recommend keeping it low-key, give a genuine compliment, and OFFER VALUE.
Make your outcome first to make her feel good and to add value to her life. If you can do that, then she’s going to WANT to talk to you and be around you.
This is called “Offering Value”, which is the attitude you MUST have when approaching women in Vancouver, attracting Vancouver women and for Dating Vancouver.
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There is also a FREE VIDEO that will reveal to you MORE SECRETS on Dating Vancouver women and is a preview of some of the seminars and the top Vancouver Dating Coaches.
Hope this helps,
Stefan
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