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Free Vancouver Dating Advice for Men on Attracting Women
Dec 21st
Over the last few years, a lot more people have been looking for a Vancouver Dating Coach.
Movies such as “Hitch” featuring Will Smith showed the world the value that a Dating Coach can have on a man’s success with women and dating. Not only that, but books such as “The Game” by Neil Strauss have been written as well as products and books by David DeAngelo, more specifically “Double Your Dating”.
Dating Coaching has grown into an incredible Dating Service for men, helping men become more social, confident, meet women, attract women, and get more dates with women.
If you are looking for a Dating Coach Vancouver, then the top Dating Service available is called Lifestyle Transformations.
Lifestyle Transformations emerged in January of 2008 and now has a consistent track-record of coaching hundreds of men in Vancouver find love and become more successful with women and dating. They offer private 1-on-1 coaching tailored to your needs, as well as a 3-day Transformations Bootcamp where they take you out in the real-world and show you live how to meet, attract and date women, as well as help you do it in the process.
More notably, what these Vancouver Dating Coaches offer is their Free Dating Mastery Seminars that are held every Thursday in Vancouver on different topics of dating. These are 90-minute sessions that have now helped hundreds more men in Vancouver.
Here is a list of what a Dating Coach Vancouver can do for you:
- Help you overcome any anxiety/fear of approaching and meeting women
- Help you attract women easily through your personality and who you are
- Help you become more attractive to women
- Help you develop more confidence and charisma and become comfortable with yourself
- Help you be a better communicator, connect with women, and make women laugh
- Help you get out of the “friend zone” with women and how to avoid it all together
- Help you get more results with women – phone #’s, kisses, dates, and intimacy
- Help you make more friends and build a larger social circle
- Help you be able to approach any woman, any time and get her phone # or a date instantly
- Help you escalate with women faster through touch and how to take things to the bedroom
- Help you be able to kiss women and get make outs
- Help you find “the one” and find a great relationship with an incredible woman
- And much, much more!
As you can tell, the value is incredible and it’s something that every man in Vancouver needs to be involved with.
If you’re single and looking, this is for you.
If you need someone to hold you accountable and help you get past your blocks and barriers, then a Vancouver Dating Coach is for you.
If you are shy, have fear, anxiety, afraid of rejection, can’t meet women, can’t get dates, etc… then a Vancouver Dating Coach will help you.
To find out more, I recommend to check out these two websites:
Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminars
Lifestyle Transformations Web Site
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Dec 14th
People have been asking me about certain Vancouver Dating Sites.
I thought I’d share with you the top ones available that would be worthwhile for you to check out:
Vancouver Dating Site #1: Lifestyle Transformations
Lifestyle Transformations is by far the number one Vancouver Dating Site available in British Columbia.
They are a Vancouver Dating Service for men and teach men specifically how to meet women, how to approach women, how to get phone numbers, how to date, etc…
The best thing they are known for is the Transformations Bootcamp, which is a 3-day total immersion weekend where they take you out and act as your “personal wingman” and show you exactly how to meet and approach women, and then get you to do it as well.
They have a fantastic blog that can be found at:
http://www.LifestyleTransformations.com/blog/
Their corporate Vancouver Dating Site can be found at:
http://www.LifestyleTransformations.com
Vancouver Dating Site #2: Dating Mastery Seminars
These are Free Vancouver Seminars that are hosted every Thursday in Vancouver. They are open to everyone and are completely free and well worth it!
Every Thursday they teach a different topic of Vancouver Dating. Such as:
- How to Get a Woman’s Phone Number
- How to Approach a Woman in Vancouver
- How to Get Out Of The Friend Zone With Women
- How to Go On A Successful First Date With a Woman in Vancouver
- How to Develop Confidence and Inner Game
- How to Overcome Fear, Anxiety and Shyness
- And Much, Much More!
Their Vancouver Dating Site can be found at:
http://www.DatingMasterySeminars.com
When you go to their website, you will get to watch a cool 15-minute Free Video of them speak and teach you some stuff right from one of their seminars. Their events do fill up fast and are only limited to 15 men, so I recommend you register now:
http://www.DatingMasterySeminars.com
Those are the top Vancouver Dating Sites that I recommend you check out if you are a Vancouver Singles.
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Dec 13th
I’ve met a lot of people with mixed reviews for Speed Dating Vancouver.
I’ve heard the rare occasion of Vancouver Singles getting a few phone numbers and dates.
But, more often than that, I’ve heard Vancouver Singles end up getting poor results.
Here’s how Vancouver Speed Dating works:
STEP 1: Meet Your Dates For The Evening
You show up, sit down and have a certain amount of time to talk to a woman. Sometimes it’s a minute, three minutes, five minutes, or maybe more. It depends on the Vancouver Dating Service that you go with or the Vancouver Speed Dating company.
The problem is, let’s say there’s only 15 women (some Vancouver Speed Dating companies can have less or more).
Now, out of only 15 women, how many of those would you say are your type or you’re attracted to?
Considering not very many attractive Vancouver women show up for these kind of services (because they don’t need to), you’re most likely only going to be attracted to potentially 3 of those women.
Out of those 3 women that you’re attracted to (by the way, EVERY OTHER GUY there is also attracted to them because they are most likely the most attractive women there), you’re now competing with 15 other guys to meet those women.
STEP 2: Connect With Your Vancouver Dates
You only have a limited time to interact with those women.
In many cases, these interactions can be awkward and uncomfortable. You will have to meet and talk to women that you have no interest in. Not only that, but you don’t really get the opportunity to REALLY get to know these women because there is a time constraint.
Not to mention, you’re competing with every other guy in the room.
STEP 3: Choose The Women You Want To Talk To Again
Once this whole thing is over, you then get to choose which women you want to see again, and vice versa.
However, you ONLY get to communicate with the woman that you liked ONLY if she picks you and there is a match.
If she doesn’t like you, you don’t get nothing from it.
Here’s what makes it suck even more… you don’t even get the woman’s phone number!
What do you get? Her e-mail address. So now you have to send her an e-mail, see if she’ll reply back, and then get her phone number and attempt to set up a date.
I’ve heard from a lot of guys who DO get matches that these follow-up process often leads to “flakes” and even if a woman is matched with you, some may not even reply to your e-mails or may not be interested a few days later.
What does Speed Dating Vancouver cost?
It depends on the Vancouver Dating Service or Agency, but it can be anywhere from $25-$60 for an evening.
What’s the better solution?
The better solution is to cultivate the confidence, social skills, and ability to meet, attract and date women anytime, anywhere.
That means being able to meet women in Vancouver at coffee shops, on the street, in the book store, at the grocery store, at shopping malls – during your day-to-day life. If you go to nightclubs, bars or lounges, then that’s okay too.
But I don’t have the time to meet women! I’m busy enough as it is!
Again, it’s about MAKING IT APART OF YOUR LIFE.
You see beautiful women everywhere. It only takes 5 minutes out of your day to approach her and start a conversation. Stop using “time” as an excuse. You can make the time. Everyone shares the same thing in common: 24/7.
OK fine.. the truth is, I don’t know how to meet and approach women!
You’re not alone. Virtually every guy suffers from “approach anxiety” and doesn’t know what to say or do.
The first step is admitting that you can improve this area of your life.
Lifestyle Transformations, a Vancouver Dating Service for Men, teaches men exactly how to meet, attract and date women – anytime, anywhere.
They host a free Vancouver Dating events every Thursday, called the Dating Mastery Seminars. You can attend for FREE and check out what they offer. This is a far better solution than Vancouver Speed Dating.
Click here for the Dating Mastery Seminars.
Not only that, but you will SAVE MONEY, TIME SPENT GOING TO SPEED DATING, and the CONFIDENCE you gain will translate and improve every aspect of your life. It’s a no-brainer.
To attend a Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminar, go to:
http://www.DatingMasterySeminars.com
To learn more about Lifestyle Transformations, go to:
http://www.LifestyleTransformations.com
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Dec 12th
In this day in age, Vancouver Singles are struggling to meet and attract women.
Men today are lost and clueless when it comes to Vancouver Dating. They are getting stuck in the “friend zone” with women and have anxiety and fear to make the first initial approach.
Vancouver Dating has changed. It’s not the way it used to be before, where more people were open to meeting each other and connecting. Instead, with the use of the internet and technology, people are stuck more behind their computer and are frustrated.
Vancouver Singles are now relying on other Vancouver Dating Services such as online dating out of frustration. But, is this the answer?
I would say NO – there are other options out there. And better ones.
There are many other Vancouver Dating Services out there that can produce a powerful result and is providing a better solution. Lifestyle Transformations, the number one Vancouver Dating Service for Men, hosts Free Vancouver Seminars teaching men how to meet, attract and date women.
What is the secret to Dating Vancouver women?
One word: Confidence.
If you have confidence and full belief in yourself, then meeting and attracting women becomes easy and fun. When belief, things are a self-fulfilling prophecy and women fall into your lap.
There are only 10% of men in this world that attract 90% of the women and they all have this one quality in common: Confidence.
What most men don’t recognize when it comes to Dating Vancouver women is that confidence is something that can be learned and developed.
Through pushing your comfort zone, doing things that are scary and uncomfortable, you will gain confidence.
The next time you see that attractive girl at Starbucks or at the grocery store, or even when you’re out with your friends – make a decision to go up and start a conversation with her.
It can be the smallest thing. Whatever it is, it doesn’t matter. It doesn’t matter whether or not you get her phone number or get a date. With the goal of simply pushing your comfort zone, you will gain confidence and your success with women and dating will improve drastically.
Not only that, but by approaching women and starting conversations with them, you begin to internalize the belief of “Wow… women actually want to talk to me!” and you gain confidence through changing your belief systems.
In the past, you may have negative beliefs or associations around meeting women and dating. Things such as “Women are unapproachable” or “Women don’t like me” or “I’m not good looking enough or attractive enough.” These beliefs soon begin to diminish and become replaced with “Women are attracted to me. I’m an attractive man. Women want to be around me.”
Always remember: “What one man can do, another man can do.”
Any man can achieve success and confidence with women in Vancouver. It’s something that can be developed and attained if you are committed enough.
I highly recommend checking out Lifestyle Transformations and one of their Dating Mastery Seminars for Men that are hosted every Thursday in Vancouver.
To attend a Dating Mastery Seminar, go to:
http://www.DatingMasterySeminars.com
To find out more about Lifestyle Transformations, go to:
http://www.LifestyleTransformations.com
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Dec 9th
In writing this Article Vancouver Dating, I live by an important saying:
“Women are attracted to men who are attractive. If you want to attract women, become more attractive!”
Being attractive has nothing to do with looks, money, fame, or being tall.
Being attractive is all about a way of BEING.
I meet a lot of guys when it comes to Vancouver Dating and they always ask, “Hey man, what do I say to that woman? What should I do? What should I DO to xyz…?”
But, meeting, attracting and dating Vancouver women has nothing to do with DOING – it’s all about BEING.
It’s about asking yourself and figuring out HOW you can become more.
How can you become more confident with Vancouver Dating?
How can you become more charismatic with Vancouver Dating?
How can you become a better communicator with Dating Vancouver women?
How can you develop a better sense of humor?
How can you become more successful with Vancouver Dating?
When you ask a specific question, you will come up with specific answers. Ask and you shall receive.
It’s about embarking on a life-long journey to become more attractive. Attraction doesn’t stop when you meet that women of your dreams. Not at all. At that point, you still need to maintain the attraction in the relationship.
I wrote this Article Vancouver Dating because this is an extremely important topic for men.
Most men have an “ego” when it comes to developing themselves. This is like shooting yourself in the foot.
There are MANY resources to become more attractive for Vancouver Dating.
Such as:
1) Attend a Free Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminar in Vancouver that is held every Thursday:
http://www.DatingMasterySeminars.com
2) Read more Article Vancouver Dating on this blog – on topics of Vancouver Singles, Asian Dating Vancouver, Vancouver Dating Services, etc… Look around.
http://www.DatingVancouverBlog.com
3) Check out Lifestyle Transformations, the #1 Vancouver Dating Service for Vancouver Singles:
http://www.LifestyleTransformations.com
4) Read books!
5) Take public speaking classes, acting classes, improv classes, voice classes, etc… anything to get you out of your shell.
6) Attend events/seminars/classes on improving yourself!
There are many ways to do it. Just open your eyes and begin exploring.
Stefan
Article Vancouver Dating
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Dec 1st
I want to discuss the topic Online Dating Vancouver.
As the internet grows and expands, online dating has become massive.
Years ago, as a Vancouver Single, I attempted to find love online.
I gravitated towards it because I simply had a difficult time meeting women in the real world in Vancouver, as many others do. I was shy and introverted and I didn’t know how to approach a woman on the street or at a coffee shop or nightclub.
I think MANY people share this if you’re into Online Dating Vancouver.
Most men STRUGGLE when it comes to Dating in Vancouver. They don’t know what to say, how to approach a random woman, how to get her phone number, how to escalate things, and so fourth. They lack OPTIONS and most are hopeless.
It can be difficult – I was once there.
For myself, if a beautiful woman was RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME WAVING AT ME, I wouldn’t be able to start a conversation with her. That’s how bad it was for me.
With internet dating, I found it is very hit or miss. I could never get a CONSISTENCY from it.
Also, I found it was such a long, grueling process to meet a woman. Sometimes you have to spend a while before you can get a woman comfortable enough on the phone or a date.
Not to mention, you deal with the challenge of her looking NOTHING like her pictures. Been there before!
I asked myself, “If I had the ability to just walk up to any attractive girl on the street or anywhere, then would I need internet dating?”
The answer was obvious. I was gravitating towards Vancouver Internet Dating to avoid having to build my natural confidence to meet and date women.
Most men are playing the numbers game of Online Dating in Vancouver. They are HOPING that women will message them back. But, the thing is, women can only judge a man by his profile and pictures.
This can be a huge disadvantage for men, especially if you aren’t good looking. It is difficult to convey your personality through a computer. Not to mention you’re dealing with TONS of competition, as hundreds of men are messaging her everyday.
The solution is simple. I recommend ditching Online Dating Vancouver and commit to improving yourself and becoming confident and create success with women.
The steps are easy and it is far more rewarding.
You stand out from EVERY OTHER GUY when you can approach and interact with a woman in Vancouver on the street or during the day – even at a night club, bar or lounge.
Not to mention, you can convey your personality and looks don’t have to matter as much.
You can attract her through CONFIDENCE and CHARISMA, which can be developed.
For Vancouver Singles, it is the way to go.
There’s a Vancouver Dating Service called Lifestyle Transformations that focuses on Vancouver Dating.
They host the FREE Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminars, held every Thursday in Vancouver.
To attend a Dating Mastery Seminar, go to:
http://www.DatingMasterySeminars.com
I guarantee if you focus on improving yourself, you will have a BETTER relationship and meet more women and it’ll be easier for you and faster, rather than Online Dating Vancouver.
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Nov 26th
Here are some tips on Asian Dating Vancouver.
First, understand that Vancouver is a GOLDMINE for Vancouver Asian Dating.
Vancouver, Richmond, and other parts of Vancouver are flooded with beautiful Asian women.
The possibilites are endless. You can meet these women at bars, nightclubs, lounges, or during the day shopping.
However, there is a SPECIFIC way for Vancouver Asian Dating and how to approach these women.
The culture in Asia is a lot different than North America, obviously.
In my experience, Asian women are more shy and reserved compared to other women. In their culture, it’s “weird” for a random guy to approach them and engage them in a conversation. They aren’t used to it.
So, you MUST keep that in mind for Asian Dating Vancouver.
That’s why it’s important to be VERY non-threatening and to make her feel comfortable when you meet her.
Let her know, “Listen, I know it may be a bit different in Asia and that this doesn’t normally happen this way, but I wanted to say I think you’re pretty” (or whatever you want to say to her.
By pacing her reality and letting her know it can be WEIRD, she will feel more comfortable and be able to relate and connect to you.
There are SPECIFIC Vancouver Asian nightclubs that you can go to where you will find Asian women. I recommend looking them up online.
It’s also important to give her space and try to connect with her immediately.
Ask her, “Where are you from?” and perhaps go into a story about it. It helps if you understand the Asian culture and you can relate to her. This will give you an advantage with Vancouver Dating” href=”http://www.DatingMasterySeminars.com”>Vancouver Asian Dating.
Asian Dating Vancouver does NOT have to be hard. Vancouver Dating can be simple, easy and fun.
These women are meeting and dating MEN out there – why can’t that be you?
There are A LOT of Vancouver Asians that get together every Thursday in Vancouver on the topic of Vancouver Dating.
We host a Free Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminars every Thursday that is only 90-minutes and FREE to attend.
I highly recommend you come on out and check it out. You can find out more by going to:
http://www.DatingMasterySeminars.com
P.S. Also a great Vancouver Dating Service is Lifestyle Transformations, learn more about them!
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Nov 25th
Today I’m going to share with you a Vancouver Dating secret on how to get a woman’s phone number in 30 seconds or less!
Yes… this is real. I’ve done it many, many times. And the best part is that it works 95% of the time!
This applies to Dating Vancouver women and basically anywhere else in the world.
Here’s how it goes:
YOU: “Hey, I know this is totally random and odd, but I had to come over and tell you that I think you’re beautiful and I wanted to come and meet you! I’m Stefan.”
HER: “Thanks! I’m Jessica.”
YOU: “Nice meeting you. Listen, I’m in a hurry but I would love to talk to you again. Do you have a cell phone? Tell me your phone number.”
That’s all there is to it.
I know it’s sounds overly simplistic, but this works EXTREMELY effectively.
Basically, when you approach her you must have our INTENT be known (that you’re attracted to her).
You tell her that you’re in a hurry and just jump right into the phone number.
I ASSUME that she is going to give me her phone number, which is why I don’t ask “Can I have your phone number?” No, I say “Tell me your phone number.”
This is how you have to meet Vancouver women when there is a time constraint.
I usually only do this if there’s a girl that is working or is a server or doesn’t have much time to talk and interact.
I also do this when I am in a hurry.
I did this a while ago when a girl was getting into a taxi and was in a hurry.
After I got her phone number, I sent her a text message saying:
“Haha that was random… nice meeting you!”
She messaged me back. I later ended up dating this girl for several months!
This is so easy… ANYONE can do it. Even you!
Go out and try it and report back with the results. I would love to hear your success stories and how you’re doing. You can learn A LOT more on Vancouver Dating by attending a Free Dating Mastery Seminar. Click Vancouver Dating to find out more.
I’ve been receiving a lot of great comments and feedback from people lately.
My inbox has been getting FLOODED with people that have been getting results so far by attending these Dating Mastery Seminars in Vancouver.
I’ve been hearing stories about men completely demolishing their approach anxiety, meeting women that they previously thought were “out of their league”, getting tons of phone numbers, dates, and even relationships!
A guy sent me an e-mail the other day about getting his FIRST THREESOME through practicing these principles from the Dating Mastery Seminars. It’s so great to hear!
Anyway, if you want to TRANSFORM your results too, then be sure to check out the Free Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminars.
Don’t miss out! You can attend NOW by going to:
http://www.DatingMasterySeminars.com
Talk soon!
Stefan
P.S. I have tons more articles on Vancouver Dating, Vancouver Singles, Vancouver Seduction, through out this blog. Check them out.
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Nov 10th
So I am sitting at Starbucks in Vancouver right now getting some work done and I just met an incredible, beautiful girl about and got her phone number.
Here’s how it went down.
I’m sitting in Starbucks with my laptop out in front of me.
A beautiful, tall brunette girl walks by and is in the line-up to order something.
I take off my headphones and think “Wow… she’s beautiful! I have to meet her.”
Now, generally when a woman is about to order something is the only time I tend to “wait” before approaching her. In most cases, I spot a beautiful woman and I just walk up and begin talking to her.
In this case, it can be somewhat uncomfortable if I begin talking to her while she has her wallet out and is interacting with the cashier. It will create an unnecessary pressure that both her and I don’t want.
So instead, I wait. I’m waiting for the right opportunity, which is either when:
1) She’s already paid and is patiently waiting and standing there for her coffee
2) She gets her coffee and is about to leave
3) She gets her coffee and then sits down to settle down
Those are the scenario’s of what could happen.
I decide to wait until after she orders her drink and when she’s waiting, which gives me enough time to engage her in a conversation.
Okay, so she’s there waiting.
I get up, walk over to her, smile and say “Hey… this might seem a bit random, but I noticed you from over there and I had to come over and meet you.”
Her reaction was: “Aww… thanks!”
I then ask her “What’s your name?”
She replies, “Samantha.”
I then introduce myself and ask her what she’s up to. She says she’s on her coffee break.
From there, I asked her what she does and I then began telling her what I’m up to today.
She said she’s really tired this morning because she was out last night having drinks for her friends birthday. I began teasing her for being a “party girl” and told her that I wouldn’t be able to hang out with her because of that.
This made her laugh and begin qualifying herself and saying “No, no… I’m not like that!”
After we joked, I spent some time getting to know her and invited her to sit down with me for a bit. She did, but mentioned she had to be back to work in 5 minutes.
After our conversation ended, SHE offered her phone number to me and told me to call her sometime. Nice!
It’s not uncommon for women to ASK YOU for your phone number or WANT to see you again when you’re confident, attractive and interesting.
This is a reality that a lot of men in Vancouver don’t realize when it comes to Vancouver Dating.
It’s rare and refreshing for a woman to meet men who have their act together, since they are sick of all the “regular” guys who stumble all over themselves and lack confidence.
After that, I sent her a text message saying “Hey beautiful it was nice meeting you!”
She replied: “Nice meeting you too call me sometime and well hangout!”
That’s how an interact should go. Mutual attraction.
No mind-games or tricks or anything.
Just being honest, fun and interesting.
This kind of stuff is pretty simple. It becomes EASY and FUN… ONLY when you have the right tools and follow the right principles.
I don’t need to recite all these “lines” or think of what to say. I’m just being me and having fun in the process.
The problem is, most of the “guru’s” or “experts” out there teach you how to manipulate a woman, or will teach you all these weird “lines” or tricks on how to interact with her.
It doesn’t have to be that complicated. And believe me, I’ve been there before!
Do you want to learn how to “be yourself” when meeting women in Vancouver?
If so, then you MUST check out a FREE Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminar.
You will get an opportunity meet the experts of Vancouver Dating and learn directly from them in 90-minutes their secrets to meeting women Vancouver, attracting women, dating vancouver women, how to get a girlfriend, how to get out of the friend zone, how to approach women, and more!
These are all people who GET RESULTS and KNOW WHAT THEY’RE DOING.
These are guys who have dated the most beautiful women in the world and have a consistent track-record to back it up. These are guys who have BEEN THERE BEFORE and can offer solutions to help and can guide you in the right direction.
They know their stuff.
You can attend a FREE Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminar by going to:
http://www.DatingMasterySeminars.com
P.S. I will also give you a FREE VIDEO on how to become successful with women and secrets to dating in Vancouver. Click below to watch your FREE 15-minute video.
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Nov 9th
I want to share with you a bit about my life and the reality of becoming successful with women and dating in Vancouver for Vancouver Singles.
There are a lot of PRO’s to it, obviously. But also, there are some CON’s.
Let me share a few.
The PRO’s of being successful with women:
- You NEVER have to be lonely again. If you want to hang out with someone or go on a Vancouver date, you can literally step outside of your house and meet someone within minutes and be having coffee with them or drinks.
- You have MORE friends and people wanting to be around you. People admire you and look up to you. You gain respect from men, and MORE women want you. At this point, attracting women in Vancouver is easy and effortless.
- You have A LOT more fun in your life. A lot more adventures and crazy experiences that you can look back upon and will add a lot of meaning to your life. You will live a lot more interesting life.
- You don’t have to masturbate to porn or rely on anything like that anymore, because you now have an active sex life. You can have sex with someone any day of the week if you choose to.
- You have the OPTIONS or CHOICE of having being in a relationship or not. If you want to just have fun with women and date, that’s okay… but when you are ready for a relationship you can get into one on YOUR terms.
- You will attract HIGHER QUALITY women. Yes, you will attract the extremely beautiful women (the models, actresses, etc…) but also women with PERSONALITY which is extremely important.
- You will make MORE MONEY in your career due to better communication skills and more confidence. You will also have a better relationship with your family and friends because of this as well.
- You will start getting FREE STUFF! People will begin offering you things for free where ever you go, or at least discounts. This is the benefit of being social and having people like you.
- You won’t have to worry about your girlfriend breaking up with you or cheating on you with another guy. YOU will be the one in control and are able to keep her attracted and interested in you.
- You won’t have to worry about SETTLING for a girl that you may not be interested in later in life. Think of getting married because you don’t have many options and then realizing it was a mistake, only to get divorced?
- Your quality of life goes up drastically. You become a lot happier and fulfilled. You will feel this area is something you can control and no longer feel helpless in social situations or in dating.
- You have a better personality and more confidence. More and more good things begin to happen to you because you’re so positive and feel great. Things begin manifesting in your life!
- You get to experience the BEST of what life has to offer. You get to experience MORE love, connection, joy, fulfillment, happiness, excitement, adventure, fun, spontaneity, security, comfort, etc…
- You can totally nail any job interview you want and can talk your way into things. You are also really good at influencing people or even in sales and marketing.
Okay, now for some of the CON’s of becoming successful with women for Vancouver Singles:
- You begin attracting A LOT of women. All of a sudden women you have many women calling you and wanting to hang out with you. Someone women will begin to stalk you or prank call you at random hours of the day. You will also begin attracting women you may not be interested in by mistake.
- Some people won’t like you. In fact, some people will hate you. When you begin dating some beautiful women, there will be their insecure guy “friends” who secretly have a crush on her and will also secretly despise you for dating
her. They are jealous.
- You will be a lot busier. A lot of your free time will be occupied with women and friends. People are constantly wanting to hang out with you. Sometimes you will go to hang out with a girl and you will end up hanging out with her a lot more than you expected and it can distract you from other things going on. Sometimes you end up sleeping in with women or staying up extremely late with them as well.
- You won’t be able to relate to or hang out with certain people. The people that are negative or hold you back or are “takers” will just feel like people who are sucking your energy away. You will begin to avoid people like this and
may lose some friends. You will attract and be around higher level people, though.
- Some women will just use you just for sex. Yes… this happens. And yes, this can be a problem.
- Sometimes you will have to deal with some of the drama that comes along with certain women. The higher quality the woman, the more she will test you or challenge you. You may also have to deal with some of their flakey behavior
at times or the moodiness some women have. The good news is you learn to deal with this well when you become successful.
- When you get an attractive girlfriend, you will have to deal with her coming home to tell you about all the guys that approached her or were hitting on her. Learning to become comfortable with this is something you will gain and you will also learn not to care or be jealous.
- There are needy women out there who will constantly try to get into a relationship with you or want to be with you all the time. You have to learn to say no and stay focused in your life.
- You will have “female friends” in your life but secretly have a crush on you. It’s like they are in YOUR friends zone. They will come out to hang out with you and will want you.
These are some of the REALITIES from my own life and experience with women.
This is the HONEST TRUTH.
Yes… the PRO’s outweigh the con’s for sure.
As for the CON’s… I don’t really view them as bad things at all, because they are just things that you learn to handle and deal with as you become more successful with women and Vancouver Dating.
They are what I call “High Quality Problems.”
They are problems that you WANT to have.
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Take care!
Stefan
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