Dating Vancouver Secrets for Vancouver Singles…. READ ON!

Is there a woman that you REALLY like or have a crush on, but you don’t know whether or not she likes you back? Or, she just views you as “the friend” and doesn’t feel the same way back?

This is what I call “the friend zone.” Here are some Vancouver Dating tips on how to get out of the friend zone with a woman.

STATING YOUR INTENT

First, it’s important to know what you did wrong so that you can avoid it in the future.

The reason why you are in the “friend zone” with this girl, is because you failed to STATE YOUR INTENT.

One of the most important things when first meeting a woman is for her to know what your intent is. How you set up the relationship with a woman right at the beginning is crucial to whether or not you will be “the friend” or “the boyfriend.”

If a woman doesn’t know what your intent is, and you don’t clearly communicate to her that you are interested in her more than “just friends”, then she will simply ASSUME that you are friends. You don’t want this to happen.

If immediately let her know when you meet her that you like her and have an interest in her, then you will avoid being slotted in that category. There are different ways of doing this, which don’t have to be as direct as saying “I like you.”

For example, you can express your interest in a woman you first meet by looking in her eyes a certain way, by playfully teasing her or touching her in a flirtatious manner, or by expressing interest in her by asking certain questions. Those are more subtle ways. A more direct way of letting her know immediately could be simply giving her a genuine compliment and letting her know that you think she looks great today, or beautiful, or really pretty.

You want to begin doing this kind of stuff right when you meet her. The longer you wait, the weirder it gets, because as time goes on you’re digging yourself more deeply in the “friend zone.”

It’s also important to be escalating things with the woman and leading things to the next level – especially for Dating Vancouver women. For example, if you’re going out with a girl and you’re waiting until the 5th date to kiss her, by that point it may be too late and she will feel uncomfortable by that because at that point she just assumed you guys were friends.

You always want to be moving things forward with Vancouver women and be clear about your intent. She should know that you are attracted to her. And part of being a man is being comfortable with expressing your desires and interest in someone else. She will find it attractive, believe me!

Now, if you are already Dating Vancouver women and are in the friend zone and you’re asking how to get out, what you need to do is begin by applying some of the strategies that I mentioned above. Begin flirting with her differently, playfully teasing her and touching her more frequently (keep the touches light and brief at the beginning), and giving her more compliments.

Next time you see that Vancouver girl, tell her how beautiful she looks today or say something like “You know, I didn’t notice this before, but you have really amazing eyes!” Begin dropping hints slowly and gradually. The key here is SLOWLY and GRADUALLY. You don’t want to come out of the blue and freak her out and make her uncomfortable.

You want to ease into this. What you are essentially doing and what I am talking about here is generating ATTRACTION! What is going to happen is all of a sudden she is going to begin thinking of you and seeing you differently. Eventually, things may escalating to a more sexual or intimate stage, which I assume is what you want.

When you get to that more sexual and intimate level with her, then you’re officially out of the friend zone. Congratulations!

But, I hope the biggest thing you learned here is to AVOID the friend zone all together.

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Hope these tips make a difference for you!

Stefan

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