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Vancouver Meeting People – How to Meet & Approach Women in Vancouver
Dec 15th
Meeting people in Vancouver, especially women, can be a challenge.
I’ve heard that Vancouver is one of the most difficult cities to meet people in.
What is the most common way for people to meet people in Vancouver? It’s usually through friends, a social circle, work, or school. However, what I found is that meeting people in those situations, especially if you’re a man trying to meet a woman, it can be extremely limited.
If you’re a single in Vancouer and you want to learn how to meet women in Vancouver and you’re doing it through work or school, then you’re lacking options and choice.
I’m going to share with you some simple steps on Vancouver Meeting People.
STEP 1: Get Out Of The House!
This is where it all begins. You aren’t going to meet women if you’re stuck inside all day and isolated. Women are out in the REAL WORLD. If you want to meet women, ask yourself “Where do women go?”
The answer to that is SOCIAL GATHERINGS. Here is a quick list of places you can for Vancouver Meeting People:
- shopping malls (Metrotown, Richmond Center, Pacific Center, Oakridge, etc)
- the street (Robson St, Granville St, Davie St, West 4th, Commercial Drive, etc…)
- coffee shops (Starbucks, Blenz Coffee, local coffee shops)
- book stores (Chapters)
- the beach (Kitsilano, English Bay)
- bars/nightclubs/lounges (Granville St, Yaletown, Gastown, Kitsilano)
- grocery stores (IGA, Safeway, Shoppers, etc)
- fitness clubs/yoga studio (Fitness World, etc)
That is just a small list. Begin going to these places and you will see attractive women here and will all of a sudden have more OPTIONS for Vancouver Meeting People.
STEP 2: APPROACH & INTERACT
This is where most people fail.
They see a beautiful woman in Vancouver, but hesitate and don’t talk to her. They feel anxiety and let fear take over them. They begin doubting themselves and are lacking the confidence to do it. Part of it comes from not knowing what to do, say, or out of fear of rejection.
There are professional Vancouver Dating Services, such as Lifestyle Transformations, who hosts seminars and coaching for men on meeting women and dating in Vancouver (which I highly recommend). You can find out more about their FREE Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminars by clicking here.
Otherwise, it all starts with pushing your comfort zone.
If it’s scary for you, then start small. Begin approaching women and asking a simple question.
“Hey, I have a quick question for you. Do you know where xyz is? Cool, thanks.”
Once you’re comfortable with that, approach a woman and ask her opinion on something.
“Hey, let me get your opinion on something real quick. I’m trying to find a gift for my sister, do you think she would like this?”
Once you’re comfortable with that, move on to being honest and direct, giving her a genuine compliment:
“Hey, this might sound a bit odd, but I had to come up to you and tell you that you’re really cute. What’s your name?”
It all begins with doing that approach. If you begin with that, wonders will happen.
Again, the biggest thing holding men back is taking action, conquering their fear, and doing it.
Luckily for us, Lifestyle Transformations hosts Free Dating Mastery Seminars every Thursday in Vancouver.
These are 90-minute sessions on different aspects of Vancouver Dating and Vancouver Seduction, for Vancouver Singles.
To find out more on Vancouver Meeting People and the Dating Mastery Seminars, go to:
http://www.DatingMasterySeminars.com
When you click the link above, you will get to watch an awesome free video from one of their seminars that will change your perspective on Vancouver Dating.
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Article Vancouver Dating – Being Attractive To Women
Dec 9th
In writing this Article Vancouver Dating, I live by an important saying:
“Women are attracted to men who are attractive. If you want to attract women, become more attractive!”
Being attractive has nothing to do with looks, money, fame, or being tall.
Being attractive is all about a way of BEING.
I meet a lot of guys when it comes to Vancouver Dating and they always ask, “Hey man, what do I say to that woman? What should I do? What should I DO to xyz…?”
But, meeting, attracting and dating Vancouver women has nothing to do with DOING – it’s all about BEING.
It’s about asking yourself and figuring out HOW you can become more.
How can you become more confident with Vancouver Dating?
How can you become more charismatic with Vancouver Dating?
How can you become a better communicator with Dating Vancouver women?
How can you develop a better sense of humor?
How can you become more successful with Vancouver Dating?
When you ask a specific question, you will come up with specific answers. Ask and you shall receive.
It’s about embarking on a life-long journey to become more attractive. Attraction doesn’t stop when you meet that women of your dreams. Not at all. At that point, you still need to maintain the attraction in the relationship.
I wrote this Article Vancouver Dating because this is an extremely important topic for men.
Most men have an “ego” when it comes to developing themselves. This is like shooting yourself in the foot.
There are MANY resources to become more attractive for Vancouver Dating.
Such as:
1) Attend a Free Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminar in Vancouver that is held every Thursday:
http://www.DatingMasterySeminars.com
2) Read more Article Vancouver Dating on this blog – on topics of Vancouver Singles, Asian Dating Vancouver, Vancouver Dating Services, etc… Look around.
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3) Check out Lifestyle Transformations, the #1 Vancouver Dating Service for Vancouver Singles:
http://www.LifestyleTransformations.com
4) Read books!
5) Take public speaking classes, acting classes, improv classes, voice classes, etc… anything to get you out of your shell.
6) Attend events/seminars/classes on improving yourself!
There are many ways to do it. Just open your eyes and begin exploring.
Stefan
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Online Dating Vancouver – Pros & Cons to Vancouver Internet Dating
Dec 1st
I want to discuss the topic Online Dating Vancouver.
As the internet grows and expands, online dating has become massive.
Years ago, as a Vancouver Single, I attempted to find love online.
I gravitated towards it because I simply had a difficult time meeting women in the real world in Vancouver, as many others do. I was shy and introverted and I didn’t know how to approach a woman on the street or at a coffee shop or nightclub.
I think MANY people share this if you’re into Online Dating Vancouver.
Most men STRUGGLE when it comes to Dating in Vancouver. They don’t know what to say, how to approach a random woman, how to get her phone number, how to escalate things, and so fourth. They lack OPTIONS and most are hopeless.
It can be difficult – I was once there.
For myself, if a beautiful woman was RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME WAVING AT ME, I wouldn’t be able to start a conversation with her. That’s how bad it was for me.
With internet dating, I found it is very hit or miss. I could never get a CONSISTENCY from it.
Also, I found it was such a long, grueling process to meet a woman. Sometimes you have to spend a while before you can get a woman comfortable enough on the phone or a date.
Not to mention, you deal with the challenge of her looking NOTHING like her pictures. Been there before!
I asked myself, “If I had the ability to just walk up to any attractive girl on the street or anywhere, then would I need internet dating?”
The answer was obvious. I was gravitating towards Vancouver Internet Dating to avoid having to build my natural confidence to meet and date women.
Most men are playing the numbers game of Online Dating in Vancouver. They are HOPING that women will message them back. But, the thing is, women can only judge a man by his profile and pictures.
This can be a huge disadvantage for men, especially if you aren’t good looking. It is difficult to convey your personality through a computer. Not to mention you’re dealing with TONS of competition, as hundreds of men are messaging her everyday.
The solution is simple. I recommend ditching Online Dating Vancouver and commit to improving yourself and becoming confident and create success with women.
The steps are easy and it is far more rewarding.
You stand out from EVERY OTHER GUY when you can approach and interact with a woman in Vancouver on the street or during the day – even at a night club, bar or lounge.
Not to mention, you can convey your personality and looks don’t have to matter as much.
You can attract her through CONFIDENCE and CHARISMA, which can be developed.
For Vancouver Singles, it is the way to go.
There’s a Vancouver Dating Service called Lifestyle Transformations that focuses on Vancouver Dating.
They host the FREE Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminars, held every Thursday in Vancouver.
To attend a Dating Mastery Seminar, go to:
http://www.DatingMasterySeminars.com
I guarantee if you focus on improving yourself, you will have a BETTER relationship and meet more women and it’ll be easier for you and faster, rather than Online Dating Vancouver.
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Asian Dating Vancouver
Nov 26th
Here are some tips on Asian Dating Vancouver.
First, understand that Vancouver is a GOLDMINE for Vancouver Asian Dating.
Vancouver, Richmond, and other parts of Vancouver are flooded with beautiful Asian women.
The possibilites are endless. You can meet these women at bars, nightclubs, lounges, or during the day shopping.
However, there is a SPECIFIC way for Vancouver Asian Dating and how to approach these women.
The culture in Asia is a lot different than North America, obviously.
In my experience, Asian women are more shy and reserved compared to other women. In their culture, it’s “weird” for a random guy to approach them and engage them in a conversation. They aren’t used to it.
So, you MUST keep that in mind for Asian Dating Vancouver.
That’s why it’s important to be VERY non-threatening and to make her feel comfortable when you meet her.
Let her know, “Listen, I know it may be a bit different in Asia and that this doesn’t normally happen this way, but I wanted to say I think you’re pretty” (or whatever you want to say to her.
By pacing her reality and letting her know it can be WEIRD, she will feel more comfortable and be able to relate and connect to you.
There are SPECIFIC Vancouver Asian nightclubs that you can go to where you will find Asian women. I recommend looking them up online.
It’s also important to give her space and try to connect with her immediately.
Ask her, “Where are you from?” and perhaps go into a story about it. It helps if you understand the Asian culture and you can relate to her. This will give you an advantage with Vancouver Dating” href=”http://www.DatingMasterySeminars.com”>Vancouver Asian Dating.
Asian Dating Vancouver does NOT have to be hard. Vancouver Dating can be simple, easy and fun.
These women are meeting and dating MEN out there – why can’t that be you?
There are A LOT of Vancouver Asians that get together every Thursday in Vancouver on the topic of Vancouver Dating.
We host a Free Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminars every Thursday that is only 90-minutes and FREE to attend.
I highly recommend you come on out and check it out. You can find out more by going to:
http://www.DatingMasterySeminars.com
P.S. Also a great Vancouver Dating Service is Lifestyle Transformations, learn more about them!
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Vancouver Dating – How To Get A Phone Number In 30 Seconds Or Less
Nov 25th
Today I’m going to share with you a Vancouver Dating secret on how to get a woman’s phone number in 30 seconds or less!
Yes… this is real. I’ve done it many, many times. And the best part is that it works 95% of the time!
This applies to Dating Vancouver women and basically anywhere else in the world.
Here’s how it goes:
YOU: “Hey, I know this is totally random and odd, but I had to come over and tell you that I think you’re beautiful and I wanted to come and meet you! I’m Stefan.”
HER: “Thanks! I’m Jessica.”
YOU: “Nice meeting you. Listen, I’m in a hurry but I would love to talk to you again. Do you have a cell phone? Tell me your phone number.”
That’s all there is to it.
I know it’s sounds overly simplistic, but this works EXTREMELY effectively.
Basically, when you approach her you must have our INTENT be known (that you’re attracted to her).
You tell her that you’re in a hurry and just jump right into the phone number.
I ASSUME that she is going to give me her phone number, which is why I don’t ask “Can I have your phone number?” No, I say “Tell me your phone number.”
This is how you have to meet Vancouver women when there is a time constraint.
I usually only do this if there’s a girl that is working or is a server or doesn’t have much time to talk and interact.
I also do this when I am in a hurry.
I did this a while ago when a girl was getting into a taxi and was in a hurry.
After I got her phone number, I sent her a text message saying:
“Haha that was random… nice meeting you!”
She messaged me back. I later ended up dating this girl for several months!
This is so easy… ANYONE can do it. Even you!
Go out and try it and report back with the results. I would love to hear your success stories and how you’re doing. You can learn A LOT more on Vancouver Dating by attending a Free Dating Mastery Seminar. Click Vancouver Dating to find out more.
I’ve been receiving a lot of great comments and feedback from people lately.
My inbox has been getting FLOODED with people that have been getting results so far by attending these Dating Mastery Seminars in Vancouver.
I’ve been hearing stories about men completely demolishing their approach anxiety, meeting women that they previously thought were “out of their league”, getting tons of phone numbers, dates, and even relationships!
A guy sent me an e-mail the other day about getting his FIRST THREESOME through practicing these principles from the Dating Mastery Seminars. It’s so great to hear!
Anyway, if you want to TRANSFORM your results too, then be sure to check out the Free Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminars.
Don’t miss out! You can attend NOW by going to:
http://www.DatingMasterySeminars.com
Talk soon!
Stefan
P.S. I have tons more articles on Vancouver Dating, Vancouver Singles, Vancouver Seduction, through out this blog. Check them out.
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Singles Dating Vancouver – What To Do On The First Date
Nov 24th
I want to talk about the FIRST DATE with a woman, as I see far too many “horror” stories when it comes to this from Vancouver Singles.
First things first. NEVER do the typical “dinner and a movie” date. If you do, I will kick you in the nuts!
For Vancouver Dating – before you set up the date with a woman, you need to ask yourself “What is my outcome?”
Is your outcome to have a long-term relationship or just to hook up?
Either way, you want to escalate things with women as fast as possible to avoid being stuck as “the friend” or not getting anywhere.
The longer you wait to escalate with a woman, the WEIRDER it gets.
If you’re going for a kiss with a woman by the 5th date, then the chances are you will be getting shut down and you’ve already established yourself as “the friend.”
Let’s avoid this all together with the Vancouver Dating scene.
To have a successful date, you must have a GAME PLAN.
You need to be the leader. The one in charge.
You need to know where you are going and how things are going to play out.
I will share with you my typical Vancouver date.
First, I always have them to meet up in the evening (anytime between 6-9PM).
I never set up dates if there is going to be a “time constraint” and we can only hang out for an hour. I want the date to go as long as possible without hearing “I have to go now…” just as things are getting good.
So that’s why I plan for the evening, so there is the potential to hang out for several hours if necessary.
You also don’t want to do too late, as then you might hear the “I have to wake up early for work.”
But, depending if you want to hook up THAT NIGHT or in the next few dates, that is generally up to you.
I usually end up “taking things to the bedroom” on the first date and sometimes the second or third. It’s rare for me to ever “wait” before sex. I know some guys who end up waiting MONTHS…
I’m not sure if I could do that.
Anyway, when I set up the date I always give them a location.
You want the date to be on YOUR TERRITORY. In an area that you know.
It’s rare that I go out to her territory, but sometimes I do. It’s easy for me because I live downtown here in Vancouver, which gives me lots of options for Vancouver Dating.
I also rarely tell them what we’re going to do. I don’t tell them “we’re going to do XYZ and then XYZ and then XYZ…”
I like to surprise them and have them guessing. I like to “live in the moment” and just enjoy things. Plus I don’t want to make the date out to be this BIG THING… instead, I make it really low-key. This makes her feel comfortable.
Nobody wants to commit to doing all these things with someone they don’t even know.
That’s why it’s important to present it as, “Let’s just hang out for a bit…”
Okay, back to it.
I usually end up giving them a neutral location. Like a coffee shop or somewhere that is public. This will also make her feel safe and comfortable.
Once I meet her at the coffee shop, I ALWAYS give her a hug and begin the date in a fun, positive emotional state. I’m feeling confident and really good.
It’s important to make sure you’re ON. This will set up the date the way that you want it to.
If necessary, get yourself in the right state before the date. Jump up and down at your house before get there or get pumped up in your car on the way.
Once at the coffee shop, we usually end up going for a walk. I rarely sit down and have a coffee with them. Sitting across from someone can be awkward and uncomfortable. I prefer to keep moving.
So, go for a nice walk. Talk and get to know each other. Joke around and have fun.
I usually go for a walk near the beach, the water, or during the busy part of the city here in Vancouver.
At a certain point, we both get hungry. So I say, “I know this amazing place, let’s go here.”
I then take her to a restaurant that I like.
Since I’m vegetarian, it’s usually a really healthy place.
Sometimes we walk there or drive.
When we get there, it’s now EASY to sit down and talk to her.
I always make sure that I can sit NEXT to her if possible. I avoid sitting across from each other.
When a woman is across from you, it makes things harder to escalate or to touch her. I want her as close as possible to me.
But, if I can’t make that happen, it’s okay.
During dinner, the energy changes and this is my opportunity to connect with her more and get to know her. The conversation turns more “serious” and connection-building.
When it comes to the bill, sometimes I end up paying.
Any time that I do pay for dinner, I will always say “You get the next one…” assuming that we are going to be going out again.
Sometimes she will offer to pay half, which is no problem.
And in many cases, I’ve had women buy me dinner.
I never end up going to really expenses restaraunt with them that this is a big deal for me.
I’ve had times when I’ve ONLY split the bill and told them that, which is okay too. Whatever your preference is, it’s up to you.
Next, we usually go somewhere for drinks or some place to chill.
Sometimes I will take them to the beach where we can walk and sit down somewhere. Other times we will go to a bar or a lounge where we can further talk or have some drinks. Other times we will go back to my place and watch a movie or have drinks there.
Whatever it is for you, KNOW what you’re going to do.
Have this game plan and these options in advance.
It’s at this time of the night that I take things to the kiss and escalate things a lot more.
There will usually be hand holding at this point and we’ll be a lot closer together.
For the kiss, I will explain more of that in a future e-mail.
After that, it’s always leading them back to my apartment.
When I’m back there, things have now escalated beyond the kiss and now I have the choice if I want to take things into the bedroom.
I’m not here to tell you what is morally right or wrong… it is really YOUR choice.
If you don’t want to move things that fast, that’s fine. I’m not saying that you do. But this e-mail is illustrating my typical “date” with a woman.
This is a date that I’ve done many times. It’s up to you to create your own and to get experience doing it over and over again so that you feel confident with it.
The more dates that you go on, the better you will get.
You won’t feel as nervous or worried about what to do next. You will have EXPERIENCE!
I encourage you to go out and get AS MANY DATES AS POSSIBLE. Get the experience, because it will help you find that IDEAL WOMAN and to be able to have the success that you want more consistently.
EXPERIENCE is key.
Keep learning, growing, and taking action on this stuff.
If you want to fast-track your results, then be sure to check out the Vancouver Dating – Dating Mastery Seminars every Thursday.
Click here: Vancouver Dating to find out more.
Or you can go to: http://www.DatingMasterySeminars.com
Hope this helped! Until next time…
Stefan
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Vancouver Seduction – How to Attract Extremely Beautiful Women in Vancouver
Nov 4th
The MORE beautiful and attractive a woman is… the EASIER she is to attract.
Yes, you heard me!
Most men in Vancouver think the opposite.
Usually on our Vancouver Dating Transformations Bootcamp, the people that attend begin to agree with me and have that paradigm shift.
Beautiful women AREN’T SCARY!
In fact, they are friendly, open and very nice.
The really beautiful women can SENSE when you are genuine. They can sense when you are HONEST. And they can tell right away that you are different.
How?
Well, the most beautiful women in Vancouver are extremely intuitive. They get approached all the time by men who are trying to TAKE something from them and are being dishonest and manipulative.
Based on this, they can tell VERY easily.
In fact, it’s REFRESHING for them. They aren’t used to it and they want something different.
You see, VERY beautiful women in Vancouver have a lot of options and choices.
Because of this, they don’t base things solely on LOOKS.
Why? Because they’ve already dated the good-looking guys. They are MORE attracted to personality. When it comes to Dating Vancouver women, they want men who are confident and have their lives together.
Just like for me, I am no longer attracted to women just because they are beautiful. Why? Because I’ve already dated all the beautiful women. I am after women of HIGH QUALITY.
Guess what… SHE IS TOO!
When a guy comes along who is HONEST, GENUINE, AUTHENTIC, CONFIDENT, REAL, FUNNY, CHARMING, CHARISMATIC and has his life together… she is attracted.
She can tell RIGHT AWAY.
This is something important to understand when it comes to Dating Vancouver women.
She can sense it. She knows by the words that come out of your mouth and how you behave. She knows you are a man who is comfortable amongst women and lives his life with integrity and purpose.
It’s all about BEING ATTRACTIVE, rather than doing attraction.
The more you grow and become attractive, the more beautiful Vancouver women you will attract in your life and the higher quality women will attract into your life as well.
But it all starts with YOU.
This is why we hosted the Free Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminars for Men, so you can continually improve yourself every single week so that you can attract those women that you once thought were “out of your league.”
The Free Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminars are held every Thursday in Vancouver and they are 90-minute sessions on different topics of Vancouver Dating and meeting women.
We also have a Free Video that will share with you a preview from the seminars and some secrets to meeting and attracting women in Vancouver.
You can get it NOW here:
http://www.DatingMasterySeminars.com
I look forward to talking to you again soon!
Now, get out there and start meeting women!
Cheers,
Stefan
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Vancouver Dating – How to Attract Women in Vancouver
Nov 3rd
In order for you to be able to attract women, it’s important for you to understand that you must first learn how to be ATTRACTIVE to women!
It’s simple, women are attracted to men who are attractive. And “attractive” doesn’t mean being good looking, having lots of money, or being famous. This is something extremely important you must understand about Vancouver Dating. Let me explain…
First, it’s important to understand that women are very emotional. They aren’t as logical as us men.
So, while a woman may SAY that she is attracted to men who are 6′3″, look like Brad Pitt, and have lots of women… what she EMOTIONALLY RESPONDS TO is completely different!
Here’s an important thing to remember about Dating Vancouver women:
“What a woman says she wants and what she responds to are two completely different things.”
So, you’re in luck, you don’t have to worry about your looks or having “material” things to approach and attract women. Women are in fact more attracted to PERSONALITY above looks. Fortunately for us, women aren’t as shallow as us men… 
There are certain qualities that make men attractive to women. First and foremost, the most important one is CONFIDENCE.
Women in Vancouver are attracted to men of confidence! Which means that you need to have the confidence to be able to approach women and be able to take charge and be the leader. It’s this masculinity and fundamental strength that women are attracted to. The reason they are attracted to strong, confident, masculine men (dating back to the caveman days and still in merit today), is because women want to feel SAFE and PROTECTED.
This stuff is VERY important when it comes to Vancouver Dating.
They want the alpha male, so that if things go down, she knows she can feel safe being with you. She knows that you will be able to take care of things and be the MAN.
If you’re a sissy, then who can she depend on to take care of things? Does that mean she is going to have to step up and take care of things? She doesn’t want that. Not at all…
Being confident and comfortable with yourself means not feeling nervous or anxiety around talking to her or approaching her. It means being open, honest, and direct – not being afraid to express who you are or what you want.
There are many other qualities that are attractive to Vancouver women. Qualities such as being charismatic, having a good sense of humor, being playful and fun, adventerous and spontaneous, being interesting, dominant, and many more. It’s about building your personality and learning how to be comfortable with yourself.
If you want to be successful with Dating Vancouver women, then these qualities are extremely vital.
Here’s a news flash:
If your current personality and who you are isn’t ATTRACTING WOMEN, then the truth is you probably don’t have a very attractive personality to women. If that is the case, then it’s time to develop that attractive personality and learn how to successfully attract Vancouver single women
You will know when you have that attractive personality, because you will notice Vancouver single women suddenly wanting to be around you!
There is a lot to developing an attractive personality and learning how to attract women, which can’t really be explained much in one single article.
If you’re curious, I would say to check out the FREE Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminars for Men that are held every Thursday in Vancouver. These are 90-minute sessions focused on different aspects of Vancouver Dating.
By attending a Free Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminar, you will get an opportunity to learn tips and advice on how you can become more attractive to women and attract MORE women into your life!
Hope this helps,
Stefan
P.S. I am also giving away a FREE VIDEO which reveals the #1 Secret you need to know on how to attract women! You can watch it by clicking Vancouver Dating.
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Vancouver Dating Services – How To Get A Girlfriend in Vancouver
Nov 2nd
What Are The Best Vancouver Dating Services For Men? Lifestyle Transformations & the Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminars.
First, it’s important to understand that this is a topic that I spent YEARS trying to figure out and now have discovered the solution. I never had a girlfriend in high school, due to being shy and dorky, and having a girlfriend was something that I wanted more than anything in the world.
I’m going to share with you some powerful information that we teach at the Free Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminars – one of the best Vancouver Dating Services for Men.
The reason why most people who want a girlfriend never get one is because they are WANTING A GIRLFRIEND. Confused? It’s okay, let me explain…
The problem with WANTING a girlfriend is that it implies neediness and is an attempt to fill a missing void inside of you.
You see, most men get into a relationship for the wrong reasons. They get into a relationship out of neediness, or an attempt to fill a missing void or emptiness inside of them, to feel validated or happy, or because they are unhappy with themselves and want to escape the pain of being lonely.
When you WANT a girlfriend, it is communicated outwardly with every woman that you meet. She can sense this neediness from a mile away. Which is why it’s important to learn how to be happy and comfortable with yourself first, before you’re ready to get into a relationship.
If this is your challenge, I recommend checking out one of the best Vancouver Dating Services out there – Lifestyle Transformations and attend a Free Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminar for Men.
When you’re completely happy with yourself, comfortable in your own skin, have many options and choices, and feeling a sense of ABUNDANCE… then all of a sudden you don’t need to WANT a girlfriend or even need to FIND a girlfriend, but they will FIND YOU!
I know it sounds strange, but it’s 100% true. The reason is because instantly you are coming from a place of abundance, instead of scarcity, and women can sense it. They will literally be jumping out from behind bushes and fire hydrants to date you.
Have you ever heard the expression “You usually find love when you’re not looking for it”? This is also true.
To get a girlfriend, you must change your focus from going out to find a girlfriend to instead focusing on yourself and improving yourself. The more that YOU develop and improve yourself, the more attractive you become. The more attractive that you become, the more women you will attract. The more women that you attract, the more options and choices you will have, thus putting you in a position to have that amazing, incredible girlfriend that you have always dreamed about.
For myself personally, I spent years focused on self-growth and becoming more attractive to women. I started by learning how to approach beautiful women, how to have conversations with them, how to be playful, fun, flirtatious, how to use touch and escalate things to the next level, how to be more confident, and how to successfully date women. It completely transformed my life forever. I’m a totally different person now than ever before.
I used to be shy, lonely, frustrated with women, and insecure with myself… WANTING that girlfriend.
Not anymore… today I have unlimited options and choices with women and dating. I can get into a relationship because I CHOOSE to be, which means I don’t have to “settle” with the first girl that comes by. I have choice. I have options. I have abundance!
Over the last few years, we created Lifestyle Transformations – one of the best Vancouver Dating Services for Men.
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Hope this helped you out,
Stefan
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Dating Vancouver – How to Approach Women in Vancouver
Oct 30th
There are beautiful women everywhere in Vancouver – on the street, at the grocery store, at shopping malls, coffee shops, book stores, nightclubs, lounges, and bars. But, the question is… do you know how to approach women and the secrets to Dating Vancouver women?
Learning the ability to approach and meet any woman, anytime, anywhere is an incredible skill set to have. It’s something that will make you stand out and different than 99% of Vancouver singles out there.
For example, the other day I was walking downtown Vancouver to visit my chiropractor. It was a beautiful sunny after noon in Vancouver, and walking down the street in front of me I spotted a beautiful brunette girl. She had her headphones on and seemed like she was in a hurry.
I sped up to catch up to her and was able to get her attention by gently tapping her shoulder and signaling for her to take off her head phones. She took them off, and I smiled and introduced myself. She smiled back and then the magic began! I ended up talking with her for a good 30 minutes and getting her phone number.
The interesting thing was, about 10 minutes into the conversation she mentioned how she has been a Vancouver Single and has been Dating Vancouver for over 5 years now and I am the FIRST GUY who has approached her in broad daylight. She told me after wards how it was such a confident thing to do and something that “made her day,” as she put it.
Okay, so how did I do it? What did I say? What is the secrets to Dating Vancouver women? How do you escape the Vancouver Singles club?
It’s actually simple. I’ve done this probably 10,000 times by this point. Here are some important points to remember when approaching women in Vancouver:
1) GET HER ATTENTION
This is the most important thing. You don’t want to freak her out or make her feel uncomfortable. A Vancouver girl needs to feel comfortable talking to you. She needs to see you coming.
Simple ways you can get her attention would be to gently tap her on the shoulder or elbow (if she is turned away from you), yelling “HEY!” to her with a big smile on your face, or even saying “Excuse me…”
2) PACE HER REALITY WITH A SOFTENER
Once you have her attention, the first thing she is probably thinking is “What does this person want? What’s going on?” This happens especially during the day time, since it’s not really “normal” or common for Vancouver guys to approach women during the day.
You need to pace her reality and make her feel at ease with the situation. I call this a “softener”, which is basically saying to her “Listen, I know this might sound a bit odd…” or “This might sound a bit strange…” or “I know this might seem a bit random and doesn’t normally happen, but…”
By letting her know approaching or stopping her is a bit random or strange, by pacing her reality, she will feel begin to feel comfortable interacting with you. She will feel “understood” and at ease with things.
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3) STATE YOUR INTENT
Once you have her attention and have made her feel comfortable, you want to let her know WHY you’ve stopped her or are talking to her. The important thing here is to BE HONEST.
First, why did you approach her in the first place? Is it because you think she is attractive? Is it because you want to get to know her? Is it because you think she has an interesting style?
Whatever the reason is, be open and honest with her and don’t be afraid to communicate that. Simply say to her “I had to stop you because I think you look beautiful and I wanted to come up and tell you that.”
Or say to her “Listen, you seem like a lot of fun and I wanted to come over and say hi.” Or “I had to come over and introduce myself. I’m Stefan.”
It’s being genuine, authentic and honest.
Now, remember you still want to make her feel COMFORTABLE. So by going up to her and saying “I want to have sex with you” might not slide very well. It may be the reason why you’re approaching her, but it’s something that is going to creep her out. I recommend keeping it low-key, give a genuine compliment, and OFFER VALUE.
Make your outcome first to make her feel good and to add value to her life. If you can do that, then she’s going to WANT to talk to you and be around you.
This is called “Offering Value”, which is the attitude you MUST have when approaching women in Vancouver, attracting Vancouver women and for Dating Vancouver.
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Hope this helps,
Stefan
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