I want to share with you a bit about my life and the reality of becoming successful with women and dating in Vancouver for Vancouver Singles.

There are a lot of PRO’s to it, obviously.  But also, there are some CON’s.

Let me share a few.

The PRO’s of being successful with women:

- You NEVER have to be lonely again.  If you want to hang out with someone or go on a Vancouver date, you can literally step outside of your house and meet someone within minutes and be having coffee with them or drinks.

- You have MORE friends and people wanting to be around you.  People admire you and look up to you.  You gain respect from men, and MORE women want you.  At this point, attracting women in Vancouver is easy and effortless.

- You have A LOT more fun in your life.  A lot more adventures and crazy experiences that you can look back upon and will add a lot of meaning to your life.  You will live a lot more interesting life.

- You don’t have to masturbate to porn or rely on anything like that anymore, because you now have an active sex life.  You can have sex with someone any day of the week if you choose to.

- You have the OPTIONS or CHOICE of having being in a relationship or not.  If you want to just have fun with women and date, that’s okay… but when you are ready for a relationship you can get into one on YOUR terms.

- You will attract HIGHER QUALITY women.  Yes, you will attract the extremely beautiful women (the models, actresses, etc…) but also women with PERSONALITY which is extremely important.

- You will make MORE MONEY in your career due to better communication skills and more confidence.  You will also have a better relationship with your family and friends because of this as well.

- You will start getting FREE STUFF!  People will begin offering you things for free where ever you go, or at least discounts.  This is the benefit of being social and having people like you.

- You won’t have to worry about your girlfriend breaking up with you or cheating on you with another guy.  YOU will be the one in control and are able to keep her attracted and interested in you.

- You won’t have to worry about SETTLING for a girl that you may not be interested in later in life.  Think of getting married because you don’t have many options and then realizing it was a mistake, only to get divorced?

- Your quality of life goes up drastically.  You become a lot happier and fulfilled. You will feel this area is something you can control and no longer feel helpless in social situations or in dating.

- You have a better personality and more confidence.  More and more good things begin to happen to you because you’re so positive and feel great.  Things begin manifesting in your life!

- You get to experience the BEST of what life has to offer.  You get to experience MORE love, connection, joy, fulfillment, happiness, excitement, adventure, fun, spontaneity, security, comfort, etc…

- You can totally nail any job interview you want and can talk your way into things.  You are also really good at influencing people or even in sales and marketing.

Okay, now for some of the CON’s of becoming successful with women for Vancouver Singles:

- You begin attracting A LOT of women.  All of a sudden women you have many women calling you and wanting to hang out with you.  Someone women will begin to stalk you or prank call you at random hours of the day.  You will also begin attracting women you may not be interested in by mistake.

- Some people won’t like you.  In fact, some people will hate you.  When you begin dating some beautiful women, there will be their insecure guy “friends” who secretly have a crush on her and will also secretly despise you for dating
her.  They are jealous.

- You will be a lot busier.  A lot of your free time will be occupied with women and friends.  People are constantly wanting to hang out with you.  Sometimes you will go to hang out with a girl and you will end up hanging out with her a lot more than you expected and it can distract you from other things going on. Sometimes you end up sleeping in with women or staying up extremely late with them as well.

- You won’t be able to relate to or hang out with certain people.  The people that are negative or hold you back or are “takers” will just feel like people who are sucking your energy away.  You will begin to avoid people like this and
may lose some friends.  You will attract and be around higher level people, though.

- Some women will just use you just for sex.  Yes… this happens.  And yes, this can be a problem.

- Sometimes you will have to deal with some of the drama that comes along with certain women.  The higher quality the woman, the more she will test you or challenge you.  You may also have to deal with some of their flakey behavior
at times or the moodiness some women have.  The good news is you learn to deal with this well when you become successful.

- When you get an attractive girlfriend, you will have to deal with her coming home to tell you about all the guys that approached her or were hitting on her. Learning to become comfortable with this is something you will gain and you will also learn not to care or be jealous.

- There are needy women out there who will constantly try to get into a relationship with you or want to be with you all the time.  You have to learn to say no and stay focused in your life.

- You will have “female friends” in your life but secretly have a crush on you. It’s like they are in YOUR friends zone.  They will come out to hang out with you and will want you.

These are some of the REALITIES from my own life and experience with women.

This is the HONEST TRUTH.

Yes… the PRO’s outweigh the con’s for sure.

As for the CON’s… I don’t really view them as bad things at all, because they are just things that you learn to handle and deal with as you become more successful with women and Vancouver Dating.

They are what I call “High Quality Problems.”

They are problems that you WANT to have.

If you’re ready to reap the benefits of success with women and dating, then I recommend you take the next step and attend a FREE Vancouver Dating Mastery Seminar.  They are hosted EVERY THURSDAY in Vancouver.

These are 90-minute sessions on different aspects of Vancouver Dating – how to escape the friend zone, how to get a phone number, how to approach women, how to kiss a woman, how to attract women, how to get a girlfriend, etc…

You can sign-up now at:

http://www.DatingMasterySeminars.com

Take care!

Stefan

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